HelloThere Posted May 10, 2023 Share Posted May 10, 2023 8 hours ago, Eclipse said: Ah yes. I can show my pride and most people wouldn't even care, nor get it. Yeah, I’d love to do that but I just don’t really know if I can manage to get a white and black ring with out my parents being suspicious of it. I’ve never shown an interest in jewelry so they’d want to know what the heck is going on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atypique Posted May 10, 2023 Share Posted May 10, 2023 59 minutes ago, HelloThere said: Yeah, I’d love to do that but I just don’t really know if I can manage to get a white and black ring with out my parents being suspicious of it. I’ve never shown an interest in jewelry so they’d want to know what the heck is going on. My first ring was a white one for the aroness, but I added loads of others in a few months and no one knew what was going on. When I think about it, no one ever noticed the fact that I had a black and white ring for aroace anyway. I also have queer, non binary and aro flag on my bag. No one talks to me about it, but I've had one person asking what the 2 flags were, and another person thought that the green standed for ecology... My family still thinks that my bracelets (again, flag colors) were just colors that I liked. I have an aro/non binary lock screen but most people don't notice it since I always open my phone with the finger print Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelloThere Posted May 10, 2023 Share Posted May 10, 2023 (edited) 33 minutes ago, Atypique said: My first ring was a white one for the aroness, but I added loads of others in a few months and no one knew what was going on. When I think about it, no one ever noticed the fact that I had a black and white ring for aroace anyway. I also have queer, non binary and aro flag on my bag. No one talks to me about it, but I've had one person asking what the 2 flags were, and another person thought that the green standed for ecology... My family still thinks that my bracelets (again, flag colors) were just colors that I liked. I have an aro/non binary lock screen but most people don't notice it since I always open my phone with the finger print I doubt my parents would be as oblivious, I dropped a lot of hints that I don’t want dating or anything, they responded relatively negatively but not in a bad way like they’d hate me for it. I would get one but it’d have to be unnoticed. I do have an aroace fractal flag as my Lock Screen, there’s no way they’d notice. :D Edited May 10, 2023 by HelloThere 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
specific_enthalpy Posted May 15, 2023 Share Posted May 15, 2023 This is definitely me and my AroAllo colors. People just assume I like the colors, and it always cracks me up when people ask if the color scheme has anything to do with Sprite (the soda). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Aro Mando Echo Posted May 15, 2023 Share Posted May 15, 2023 I have a beaded bracelet that has both the aro colors and ace colors, and my family hasn't suspected a thing. I also have a "special drawer" where I keep my art that has queer themes or colors lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelloThere Posted May 15, 2023 Share Posted May 15, 2023 20 minutes ago, The Aro Mando Echo said: I have a beaded bracelet that has both the aro colors and ace colors, and my family hasn't suspected a thing. I also have a "special drawer" where I keep my art that has queer themes or colors lol Oh yeah, I’m making aroace art and hiding it in my school binder or somewhere in my room. You know, subtle things that won’t be a big deal to them unless they really investigated. When I get my own car I’m gonna go to Walmart at some point and buy a black and white ring to wear in my middle fingers. And if I decide to come out I’ll probably either do so with a serious conversation or by slowly making it more and more obvious. On 4/4/2020 at 10:42 PM, ScarfOfSexualPreference said: My phone screen is literally the gradient of the aro and no one in my family has figured it out yet Same! I got the sunset aroace flag on my background and nobody noticed. The funny thing is that the blue, orange, and white are actually one of my favorite color groups so that’s ironic. XD 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Newest Fabled Creature Posted May 23, 2023 Share Posted May 23, 2023 On 5/3/2020 at 9:17 PM, Kate Bishop best arrowace said: Someone: What are your favorite colors Me: Green and Purple My parents are really great about my gender stuff but I get the feeling from when I explained ace (in a very This is Other People way) that they won't be very happy That's the situation I'm in. My parents and siblings already know about my sexuality and gender identity and are fine with it, but I haven't told all of them, except for my brother, about my aromanticism. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelloThere Posted May 24, 2023 Share Posted May 24, 2023 14 hours ago, The Newest Fabled Creature said: That's the situation I'm in. My parents and siblings already know about my sexuality and gender identity and are fine with it, but I haven't told all of them, except for my brother, about my aromanticism. I doubt they'd have big issues with that, after all gender is where people tend to lose their cool because it just sounds so made up to them. Something with cold hard facts and analysis like aromanticism wouldn't be too hard for them to be ok with if you ask me. Though I may be wrong but I just see being aromantic as something that takes a lot of thought to be sure about and the signs are rather clear. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrueEvergreen Posted May 24, 2023 Share Posted May 24, 2023 My "closeted pride" was having an aro ace wallpaper, but then that led to me not being fully closeted anymore, as someone saw the wallpaper and knew the aro ace flag. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelloThere Posted May 25, 2023 Share Posted May 25, 2023 I've been making aroace art and stuff that I sorta just make and then hide in my room as a personal memento. :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Newest Fabled Creature Posted June 16, 2023 Share Posted June 16, 2023 I've been wanting to get a white ring sooo bad For the meantime, I could try to find aesthetically pleasing aro wallpapers. I like the whole entire "retro" shit, hence my pfp for this forum itself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelloThere Posted June 16, 2023 Share Posted June 16, 2023 2 hours ago, The Newest Fabled Creature said: I've been wanting to get a white ring sooo bad For the meantime, I could try to find aesthetically pleasing aro wallpapers. I like the whole entire "retro" shit, hence my pfp for this forum itself. Oh my gosh yes I’d love a ring, and a black one as well. Like literally the only reason I’m interested in driving is so I could get some cash, go to Walmart, and buy a black and white ring for myself. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Newest Fabled Creature Posted June 16, 2023 Share Posted June 16, 2023 1 hour ago, HelloThere said: Oh my gosh yes I’d love a ring, and a black one as well. Like literally the only reason I’m interested in driving is so I could get some cash, go to Walmart, and buy a black and white ring for myself. Yeah, I'm gonna get a job soon, and would like to spend it at least on a white ring, and maybe a chest binder; that's it really, for miscellaneous stuff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelloThere Posted June 16, 2023 Share Posted June 16, 2023 50 minutes ago, The Newest Fabled Creature said: Yeah, I'm gonna get a job soon, and would like to spend it at least on a white ring, and maybe a chest binder; that's it really, for miscellaneous stuff. I mean if I had the money I’d get aroace pride stuff (mostly for the sunset flag because I just love the color scheme of it), and probably not much else. I mean that’s really all I want, just some cool crap and not much else. XD 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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