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  1. I know- if anything, it was better for the guy because I simply couldn't love him and he would've ended up getting super hurt ^^' So yeah, I was kinda surprised when my friend told me that because !?!?!!???????! How? cx
  2. That aromantic moment when you try to explain to your friend that the reason you broke up with you your ex-boyfriend is that even though he was everything you've ever wanted, you didn't have feelings for him, and he replies with "It's selfish of you." and "It's unfair for the guy."
  3. Noooo you're not idiotic I promise c: Sometimes reckless and impatient, but not idiotic Hehe c: AYYYY DWARF BRO HERE
  4. Ahh I get this a lot too! Every guy friend I have "is my crush". Wow...Why must boy and girl friendhips always be romanticized? Because of that I'm always scared my friends will fall in love with me, since my mom told me that "Opposite sex friendships are impossible" and it just messes me up ^^'
  5. That aromantic moment when your teacher tries to argue with you that romantic love isn't necessary to being a complete human being.
  6. Just....casually going to leave this here *cough*
  7. Oooh That's actually very nice c: I'm glad you've found a place like that c: Though, keep in mind that no matter the choices you make, there will always be someone to criticize it. It's important to learn that not everyone will agree with us and that's okay. We can't control anyting but ourselves. That said, I think that if you're confident that what you're doing is approved by God, then only you can know about it! c:
  8. Especially since I've been raised in a christian family, I hear it all the time! And whenever I try to insinuate that maybe I won't get married (because realistically, finding a lifelong qp partner who's also christian, okay with me being aroace, accepts not having sex and only kissing a lil bit and cuddling when I feel okay with it and who matches my physical an moral requirements and with whom I feel completely comfortable and not ashamed to share my thoughts and feelings with will be rather hard cx), I always get the "Oh, there's someone for you. Don't be silly. And then you'll see, you'll love him so much and it'll feel so great and (all the bla bla about a cute love story and getting married and having kids and all that jazz)." Something I get a lot is also "Ohh do you have feelings for him?" every time I have a guy friend ^^' And even when I say no, they say that I'm lying and blerh
  9. There are quite a lot of Ravenclaws and Hufflepuffs around- that's nice hehe /u\ You're the first one!! (Good luck bearing with us cx)
  10. True, true. Though I want my partner in crime to be christian too, so I think that finding someone for me is going to be really, really hard. But yeah, I intend on doing what I know is right for me, and what God thinks is better for me c: This is actually extremely interesting. I know that Paul actually encouraged people to be single if they wanted to be, so I know that God can be calling me to the single life. Though, I don't know- It's kind of hard for me, giving this up. I'd like to share my life with a best friend or a qp partner or something, yet I want to do what God has in mind for me, so I guess I'll pray and see. I'm happy for you, that you've found what He wants for you c: I don't think I will ever come out as aro are openly because of those reasons, but I'd like to tell one of my close friends. I'm just- unsure if they'll invalidate it. I mean- I'm kinda used to it by now, but sometimes I want to like make a joke about it but then I remember that they don't know and it's like -ah, right. Oooh I'm happy for you c: But yeah, I completely agree with you. I'm usually a rather private person, but I'd like to tell only some specific people, though I'm really not sure at all because of those reasons and I don't know if it would change anything at all ^^' It's just- you know, the feeling of being ridiculed isn't nice, since I feel like that's the way some christians will answer, y'know. Blerh. Oh well ^^' Actually, it's not that bad at all! c: Sure, just like @DannyFenton123 said, there's bad people everywhere, but not all of us are bad! Plus, there are lots of good sides to being spiritual! It's just a matter of point of view, I think c: There are good and bad sides to everything!
  11. Slytherins Rock, honestly c: It's true that it is weird. Though, one of the the major traits of Slytherins is that they will do anything that's in their power to have what they want- so maybe with people that are dear to them they'll go to extreme lenghts to make sure they're okay????? OH NO I TOOK THE QUIZ AND GUESS WHO I GOT?? APHRODITE, GODDESS OF LOVE. OH NO. (Also my first name is Juliette so I find it quite ironical) AY HUFFLEPUFF AN AMITY BROS DIvergent has such a good concept! Though I couldn't finish the books because I couldn't stand Veronica Ross' writing ^^' So that means you're not a real red cat. *gasps* How disappointing. Hufflepuff!! c: I KNOW! BUT WHAT ABOUT PEGASUS FLIGHT? IT SEEMS SO NICE.
  12. Ah! Thank you all. I'm sure I'll enjoy it here~ THEY'RE AMAZING AREN'T THEY. Thank you c: Yours is too hehe
  13. There's the official Divergent Faction quizz:http://divergentthemovie.com/aptitudetest And the pottermore test(you have to sing up, though) : https://www.pottermore.com/writing-by-jk-rowling/the-sorting-hat c:
  14. I'm curious; what Hogwarts house are you guys in? c: And other stuff too! Divergent faction? Percy Jackson godly parent? tell me
  15. Probably. I mean- I also turn to dark magic and split my soul into 7 parts when I don't feel accepted. So I guess I understand him, yeah c:
  16. I'm sure a talk with him would give him the little push he needs to become who he's always wanted to be, yes c:
  17. Ooooh, true. Though Voldemort is a being of hatred, made by hate, made to hate. So I'm not sure we could really give him any headcanon, but yeah, he might very well be asexual aromantic if he had attraction to people c:
  18. I headcanon Remus Lupin as demiromantic asexual, honestly. I have a thing for Marauders' era okay.
  19. I once had boyfriend! And I really, really tried to get into it and all, but I simply couldn't find the interest- it felt so boring and I hated kissing and always holding hands and always having to be close and touch and everything. And the moment I realized I didn't love him, I left him, and that was that. It felt so suffocating, frankly. Later on, I also realized I was trying to convince myself I loved him. So yeah basically I got myself into this because I thought I had feelings for him, or more that I was supposed to have feelings for him because he was the perfect person. (Advice: don't do that)
  20. Hi people~ I wasn't too sure where exactly to create this topic, but decided that this would be the most relevant category to the subject of this discussion. I wanted to know if any of you are christian? If so, do you intend to share your romantic attraction with other people, since marriage and kids are so well seen in the christian community? I'm scared of showing myself as anything but straight since every time I try to bring up the topic of me not necessarily wanting to get married or anything, everyone always tells me "Ohh you'll see, you'll see." (And maybe it's true, but eh.) And aromanticism and asexuality are so unknown that people would immediately see me as someone who tries to be a special snowflake and all. I'm not feeling pressurized to come out, I just would like to find someone to spend my life with, maybe? Or to be able to share it without being immediately invalidated?
  21. katicha


    I must agree, video games soundtracks are amazing. I liked Bastion's, Journey's and Shadow of the Colossus' too a lot, and I'd like to suggest you another game that has purely amazing and beautiful and breathtaking soundtracks: Child of Light. It's so pure and transports you into another world, at least that's what it does for me- it's like time stops when I listen to it. Mario Galaxy also has amazing soundtracks, in my opinion. And so does Mario Kart Double Dash. It's not like I know them all by heart. ha. h a.
  22. Hi there~ I'm Kat, aromantic asexual, very opinionated canadian (I know. Spooky.) and I have a burning passion for stuffed animals in general. I've been searching for this kind of place for a while, since it's kinda lonely out there in the wilderness of romance and unrequited love. I simply hope to be able to make good friends and meet interesting people. Take care of yourselves!
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