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_Max_

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  • Name
    Max
  • Orientation
    Aromantic, Non-monogamous
  • Gender
    genderqueer
  • Pronouns
    they/them
  • Location
    Germany
  • Occupation
    Information Specialist

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  1. The list that @Magni linked looks to me like an extract from Claudie Arseneault's Ace & Aro Characters in Fiction database, which has been an absolute lifeline to me. It was last updated about a year ago but hopefully Claudie finds time to update again some time soon. At the moment, I am using her Goodreads "aromantic" shelf to find new aro books.
  2. I've been with my primary QPP for around two years now. My ideal date with her is spending an entire day together. In this kind of weather, we could start by spending time outside in one of our favourite spots, having a picnic and doing crafts together. Then go home, snuggle up together, read to each other or listen to a podcast we both enjoy. I also have other non-romantic partners, who enjoy different activities - one of them really likes walking so that would be my ideal date with them, as that's the activity we primarily bond through.
  3. Hey @pigeonhead, I'm sorry to hear you feel this way and I hope you feel better soon. I have a few suggestions for things that I think could help: 1 - as the others have said, limit your exposure to content that triggers or exacerbates your bad feelings about this - those romance quotes and yearning blogs you were talking about. If you can, replace them with some aro-positive, single-positive, and/or nonamory-positive sources. When's the last time you read a book with positive aro/nonamory representation? 2 - spend some time with other arospec people, nonamorous people, and/or perma-
  4. Hellenic Polytheist here. I am a lot more comfortable in this religion than in Christianity, which I was kind of raised in. Neither of my parents were really religious when I grew up and going to confirmation classes and church services for two years when I was a teenager was more a case of me going through the motions. Anyhoo, HP has lots of female deities and deities that break traditional norms. I connect a lot with the three virgin deities; Artemis, Athene, and Hestia. Artemis specifically is a queer icon to me because She chose to live in the wood apart from society (cities) and not
  5. Are there spaces specifically by/for German aros, does anyone know? Online or offline. For offline I'm specifically looking for anything in NRW.
  6. Writing fiction with arospec characters because you crave representation. Buying and reading independently published and self-published books because they're the only fiction on sale that has arospec characters. Being into fiction podcasts because lots of those have good narratives that aren't purely romance-driven or don't have romance at all.
  7. I have a white ring that I wear on my left middle finger. I also have a little collar pin in the shape of an arrow that one of my partners gave to me. Nothing says arospec like making arrow puns at every opportunity 😉
  8. if we can keep Arocalypse run by people inside the community then that will be my vote every time. Same. I can be absolutely zero help with technical things unfortunately as I don't have the required skills or knowledge but several members have already offered to help with this. I would be happy to chip in for fees and help moderate the forums. Is there a Patreon/gofundme set up yet? If not that might be a start to allow those of us who have said we'll assist with money to actually do so.
  9. Hello fellow aros, I run an ace&aro and an aro meetup group in London and have been contacted by a lady called Scarlet Pestell, who works for PinkNews, a big LGBT+ digital news outlet. They are looking to make a video for Aromantic Awareness Week, in a style similar to this one https://youtu.be/Wbde-j5FT6I where they ask different people what being aromantic/arospec means to them. She is really keen to have diversity of ages, genders, ethnic identities etc. so she's especially interested in getting some men/masc people and people of colour in the video. Filming is in North Lond
  10. Hi! I'm Lisa. I live in London. I run a local ace & aro meetup group that has a walking group, a book club, and regular brunch and pub socials. We welcome aros of any sexuality and those who don't use the SAM. I'm into Sherlock Holmes, Shakespeare, reading (especially queer SFF, books with diverse characters including arospec ones), theatre, folk music (I play the flute and sing), running, and various arts & crafts. I have the same username on AVEN.
  11. As a aro ace community organiser who is more aro than ace, this has given me lots of food for thought. I was thinking to have specifically aro-focussed events as a way to be more inclusive, and our book club has a mix of books with romantic ace(spectrum), aromantic ace(spectrum), and allo-aro(spectrum) characters assigned.
  12. Thank you Mark. I've changed the language to make it clear that allo aros are welcome. Bcause they are! We chose to make the group private to hide venues from non-members, so that those who have been banned in the past for harassment don't show up again. We took this action to keep our members safe. It costs nothing to become a meetup.com member/a member of the group. The code of conduct is specifically about behaviour and safety and includes harassment on grounds of protected characteristics. However, we try very hard to have meetups that are free or lowcost and that are held in ven
  13. London ace & aro walks! These happen once a month. Next one is Hampstead Heath on Saturday, May 11! Meet at 11 AM at Hampstead tube station. DETAILS: There is an outline of the walk here: https://www.innerlondonramblers.org.uk/ideasforwalks/self-guided-walks/15-hampsteadheath.html We'll do the long route and take in Highgate Cemetery. There is an entrance fee of £4 for the East Cemetery, which is self-guided, and £12 for the West Cemetery guided tour for those who want to do that. The West Cemetery is ONLY accessible via the guided tour because of safety reasons. Please ma
  14. We meet (almost) every Sunday from 11.30 onwards for brunch at Café Rouge, 2 St Paul's Churchyard, London EC4M 8AP. We announce on our group on meetup.com but I'll try and update here as well! The next brunch is tomorrow, so likely short notice, but I'll post upcoming dates in this thread. More info on tomorrow's brunch:
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