LoganTheAxolotl

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My headcanons: Literally all characters from Sanders Sides, Hunter from The Owl House(demi), and Omori/Sunny from Omori(Oriented Aro and fully ace). Canon: The shows I watch don't have canon a-spec representation :(

Thank you for the help!

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Sunny and Basil from Omori

I'm omni oriented aro, omni acespike, and demiplatonic/queerplatonic(not sure...) Im an INFJ

I have autism so people always say 'ohhhhhh' when I say I'm aromantic. They assume that cause I have autism, its the cause of my aromanticness.

When I was 6, I remember my mom started getting loads of boyfriends(she had before, I just thought they were normal friends). I was always repulsed by them kissing a lot. Maybe that was just cause they were adults though. When I was 8, my mom got this boyfriend(who she later married). When he started living with us, on Friday nights we would have movie nights. My mom would sometimes pick romantic movies(typically rom-coms), and I hated them. And it isn't that she was bad at picking movies, she was great at it. But, it was the romantic movies that I hated. When I was 12, my mom started allowing me to watch horror movies. I was sooooooooo excited. When I was younger she would always pause the show or tell me to get out when watching horror films. But when I started watching them, I saw how forced the sex and romantic scenes were in horror movies. I thought it was disgusting. From the ages 10-13 I made myself have crushes. First on this one friend who lots of girls liked, so I made myself like him(I creeped him out.....). When I was older, I thought that since I forced myself to like him I was a lesbian. So I made myself like my best friend. I didn't like her. I also told her that I liked her. I should have felt sad she rejected me, but I didn't, I was kind of relieved.

On another topic of mine, I remember seeing comments about queerplatonic and platonic being different. I currently identify as demiplatonic(along with other things). I've always thought that platonic and queerplatonic were the same exact thing. But thinking about it, platonic means like friendships without kissing and stuff, and doesn't queerplatonic mean to have friendships with cuddling and kissing. And I want to have friendships with cuddling and kissing but without really dating that person. So, I'm very confused. Help.

Like demisexual or demiromantic, demiplatonic is when you don't feel attraction until you form a bond with a person, except its platonic. I figured out this when I realized all the people I have platonic crushes on are really close friends of mine. https://mogai.miraheze.org/wiki/Demiplatonic

I myself am Logan, He/It/Ze pronouns, and I am omni aligned oriented aromantic/demiplatonic and omni acespike. Oriented aromantic meaning: Someone who doesn't feel romantic attraction, but may feel platonic/alterous attraction towards other people and may want to form romantic-seeming relationships with them(living together, cuddling, kissing, etc). Demiplatonic meaning: Someone who doesn't feel platonic attraction to people without getting to know them first. Acespike meaning: Someone who rarely feels sexual attraction, and when they do its it short spikes of attraction. Omni/Omniplatonic/Omniromantic/Omnisexual meaning: Similar to Pan, someone who feels attraction to all genders but has a preference unlike Pan. My preference regarding Omni: I like women the most, men the least, and people who are neither, both, in between, or whatever I like in the middle.