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adrianparty

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  1. i haven’t, i’ll definitely check it out, thank you so much!
  2. Hello! so exciting to meet another non binary lesbian! :D
  3. Hello, I think I need advice, I'm not sure... So, I have this friend, we've been friends for close to four years and we have so many things in common, it almost feels like we are the same person in different fonts haha. I'm like 98.9% sure she likes me and wants to be with me and to be honest a while ago I thought I did like her, almost like in a qpr way??? See we are in a friend group of four, our other two friends started dating and when they did this friend and I became closer, at the time I thought maybe I just thought I liked her because I wanted what our friends had so I just kinda forgot about it (I have really bad object permeance because of my AuDHD) Now after quite a few months I've started thinking if I like her and if I want to be in a QPR with her, we are very close, we have the same interest and we always go to each other about them, we listen to each other talk about our interests and seeing her happy makes me so happy. She's one of the first friends I've ever felt comfortable confiding in and felt comfortable asking for help (I usually am not the type to ask someone for help). We facetime a lot and can easily sit in a comfortable silence and do our own thing (we both are AuDHD), also some of her habits that she does that would usually overstimulate(? i dont want to say annoy) me don't at all, none of it phases me. The past week I've been thinking about how I may like her, ideally, I think I could easily move in with her and spend the rest of my life with her. But my problem is that I'm worried that I may just realize I don't like her and ruin everything. I'm also scared because I keep overthinking that I may just think I like her because I want to be close to someone or that I just want to make her happy because I'm very sure she likes me. and also I'm aromantic and she's alloromantic so I dont know if she would be willing to do a qpr. She knows about QPRs, we've talked about them and she's very opening and accepting. I'm also worried because I think she wants me to love her back in a romantic way, but I don't want to feel like i'm leading her on or making her sad because I may like her in a different way, like in a QPR way I've thought of giving it awhile to think about but I just know I'll keep running in these circles, so I thought I'd come here and as for advice on idk what lol
  4. So excited I found this, I've been wanting to meet more people like me:) Hi, I'm Adrian I'm 22 and I'm a non-binary aroace lesbian! I've been out as aromantic for quite a few years now but I'm still working on finding myself and I'm hoping that being in this community will help :) I have many many interests and I'm so excited to meet you all!
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