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sometimes i feel like a relationship would be nice, but then imagining a romantic one feels awkward /forced to me... I think I just want a best friend(s) :p

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I love the sunset flag, it feels more representative a uniform identity to me, and also i like the colours. I dont like the colours of the combo flag... but i like the ace/aro flags individually

hi, im honestly not comfortable with any name but you can call me ash. or even milk. actually i dont mind milk but the only reason i called this acc milk is cos i like milk. they. I consider myself to be arospec (but maybe I'm infiltrating!!) and I'm also asexual. I get constant squishes and i have no idea what attraction I feel to them -- I always question whether maybe its romantic but it never is. maybe it's amical or queerplatonic. but that would be on top of the alterous or platonic attraction which is always present. sometimes I'll call myself angled aroace, but I don't use orientation terms for tertiary attractions, as I dont think my brain cares about gender in that context. as for the little romantic attraction I've had, it's been for men.

I have become obsessed with finding myself a gender label in the past, and I'd feel sick every day because of it and end up analysing every emotion I had, which made my dysphoria worse because I actually had to pay attention to it. Now this might be different but I consider myself to be on the spectrum of aromantic and always delve into seeking reassurance for my label. I have had times where i have maybe even become obsessed with it -- however I think now (says me after reassurance seeking literally only 5 hrs ago) I have decided that I'm going to keep this label because I identify with the feeling of alienation from my alloromantic peers, the generally not feeling like a regular human being anywhere and also the constant questioning whether my emotions are romantic or platonic in nature... among lots of other things and also the infrequency of my attraction. I have definitely become obsessed with labels, and I'm pretty sure it's because of my OCD.

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cheating is about breaking the boundaries of the relationship... for some, having a QPP would be cheating, while for others it wouldn't be. But also, QPRs are very very variable in nature, so some might count as cheating and others not by the same rules. honestly you'll just have to ask her abt it, there's not much else you can do. just make sure she knows what a qpr is first.

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I want to say pumpkin... just because I like pumpkins. They're associated with halloween and therefore spooky unnatural weird things. Just like ppl often think we're weird. I love the fig suggestion too much though

Bruh... I think my friend thinks I like him (romantically. i dont)... I've been getting vibes and also yesterday he said "simp? who do you simp for? me? haha jk" kinda quickly and I didn't get to tell him ive never simped for anyone in my life. idk if im reading too much into it cos this is one of my fears but bruh idk what im supposed to DO

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