yeah, I apparently have been annoying my friend, but she hasn't told me, because from my POV I was worried because she and my other friend were being really quiet the past few days, and from my friend's side she felt like I was chasing her down (I wasn't intending it that way). I understand how this would have annoyed her, but she didn't come to me about it and say "hey your being kind of annoying, please stop doing this" instead of her doing it she had her other friend come and tell me. Ik she don't do well with confrontation, because she don't wanna upset me, but it kind of hurts that she doesn't trust me enough to tell me on her own. the next time I get to talk to her I'll just say, "I'm sorry i was being annoying. Though, I wish it were you who told me, I'm not mad at you, I'm just hurt"
I've told them countless times that I sometimes dont pick up on certain things, and I dometimes need someone to be like "okay, your starting to be a bit annoying, please calm down" and they both agreed to tell me. so it just..hurts.. ive told her that i'd never get mad at her for her opinion or telling me to stop something, but I guess i'm just not trust worthy enough.
No, you dont have to beat anyone up, 'clipse