ItIsRaining

Thank you for your answer! I can relate to most of your points, so it is definitely helpful.

Hi, i am wondering, if i might be demiromantic. I know that i am aro spec for sure. I read as much as i could about being demiromantic but one question remains for me: How close do you have to be to a person that you have this "strong emotional connection"? Does it always require a long time to build this connection? Because i felt (what i think it is) romantic attraction only twice in my life (i am 23 years old) and both times after having some (deep) conversations with them, after learning about who the are, their values, their characters etc. But it did not take a long time, only a few days or weeks until i experienced romantic attraction. Can this still be called demiromantic? Or something else? Maybe it was for me already a strong connection because at this time i did not have friends or deeper social contacts? Is this possible? Any ideas, advice and help are very much appreciated! I am sorry if this question has already been discussed, i just could not find information about it. Thank you :)