the jaiden animations video! i had been considering the idea of being aro months before but that was during a time when i realised i was alexithymic and the idea of being aro and being incapable of feeling another thing that other people have upset me, so i labelled myself as grayromantic and stopped thinking about it. but after some time had passed and a longtime favourite creator of mine discussed her experiences (and i saw how closely they related to mine) it was suddenly a label i was a lot more comfortable with!