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Well, I'm not sure if you're aware, but there are other types of attraction than just romantic or sexual. Alterous attraction is a form of attraction that's inbetween platonic and romantic. It's hard to explain unless you've felt it, and even if you've felt it, explaining it is still difficult. It's more of something you have to feel. But if you feel like you are aro, but you've also felt attraction (or at least I think that's what you're describing), it's definitely something to look into. As alto said, you could be lesbian aroace.

Hi, nice to meet you!!

Yep, I've heard that one before. I'll be doing something as simple as sitting with my arms crossed, because it's comfortable to sit that way and she'll assume I'm mad.

Most of the time, I love my mom, I still really do. She just drives me crazy because she isn't always willing to listen to how I see things.

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Yes I do, and it is an adventure.

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Sounds good! I did identify as aroace for a while, because it gave me some breathing room, which I really needed at the time, but now I think I'm comfortable where I am.

Like everyone else has already said, it really depends on what the comments were. If he was just being a homophobic asshole, then it would be filed under bullying, especially if you told him to stop. However, if it steps into the sexual portion, then we get into sexual harassment, which is a whole other situation. Also, your friends are wrong. Telling someone to shut up if they were being an asshole is not a bad thing. Besides, they were rude first, you were defending yourself.

Sounds like tons of fun. - TW: the basic mental health stuff. And cursing. Guys my mom noticed I was shaking my hand when I was stressed and she basically told me “You’re giving yourself a nervous tick on purpose to draw attention to yourself.” I want to fucking die. Because she doesn’t understand how deep mental health is. She knows anxiety as just being nervous and depression as what the commercials show it as, but she doesn’t realize that my anxiety is a constant thing. I’m not stressed about anything right now, but I CANT FUCKING CONTROL WHAT MY BODY DOES. I can’t fucking control the fact that shaking my hands and bouncing on my feet keeps me from freaking out or that it keeps me from being restless. Well i’m sorry I’m fucking broken, okay? It’s not like I asked for this shit.

You fall in love with people, but don't want to act on it? Hmmm.... aegoromantic? It's closer to the love you feel for friends and family members. Quoiromantic? If you go here, AUREA has some great labels that might make sense. However, go with what feels comfortable. But hi! It's nice to meet you. I'm Fandom, ze/she/they. If you're a teen, come join us on Teen Corner, it's pretty chill over there. I recently just went through a big sexuality crisis, so my brain is full of aro stuff.

EVERYONE I HAVE THE ENERGY AND THE DESIRE TO BE PRODUCTIVE BUT PINTEREST WONT LET ME

ahh yes. bardcore. i saw an adaptation of Taylor Swift's "Shake It Off" on Pinterest and now I'm disappointed I didn't save it.