Hello, For the past three years I have identified myself as an asexual lesbian but as of recently, I have been questioning whether I am just somewhere on the aro spectrum. I've only ever had one crush on a person in my entire life. However, I never pursued a relationship with this person. I liked them a lot but whenever it seemed like we were getting into relationship territory I would panic and it just always felt wrong. I've always loved love and have perceived it as one of the best things a person could experience, but it seems whenever it is presented I just can't accept it.
Presently, there is a person that I am friends with who very obviously has a crush on me. I don't know how I feel about them though. I talk to them a lot, but I don't know if I feel that romantic pull. It is stressing me out because I feel like I am leading this person on and the last thing I want to do is hurt them.
Any insight into the situation would be appreciated. Thank you
