BrainWobbles88

I like androgenous people. But Im more often attracted to behavious/values/actions I like the way some people move or the sound of their voice or the way they look at me and I think its sexy to care about things or be passionet or be tallented at something creative. I think attraction goes beyond physical attributes.

Mistaking platonic love for romantic feelings Having a gut feeling that you wont fall in love Getting into a relationship never feels like a priority Never meeting somone you are intrested in dating For those of us who belive in fluidity - feeling like its a thing that could or could not change in the future dosent mean you're not aro just means you could be somwhere on the spectrum.

I was asked on a date by a friend recently. Im physically attracted to this person and some of their behavious. They are also someone I care about platonically. And I found myself thinking about how that can be emotionally confusing. If you care about somone and are attracted to them thats usually the foundation for something romantic. But if your Aro and dont feel those fluffly feels that the romantics do, it just feels a bit like WTF? I couldnt find a disscusion on this sort of experience so I thought I would create one to see if others felt the same.