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arokaladin

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  1. what's up lads it looks like i have uuuuuh None (none) proper irl friends left so I;m back here asking for an F

    1. Neir

      Neir

      Here be an F for you, hang in there

  2. I think I am coming on too strong in this friendship and that’s stressing me out I just want to express how deep my love is but at the same time I’d rather die than make a friend uncomfortable so uuuuuuuuh Time For Depression 

    1. Eklinaar

      Eklinaar

      oh, big mood

    2. Magni

      Magni

      oh BIG MOOD.....hope it works out okay :)

  3. me, partway through a sewing project that was meant to be finished in may but is now unlikely to be finished until october, realising I need to basically redo the entire skirt and also buy more fabric: hey what if I embroidered the dress bodice and made some jewellery to match that would be cool right!

  4. Would it kill my schools lgbt club to give a shit about the whole community rather than just gay people? I’m beginning to think it would. Every week I leave feeling worse than when I came

    1. Jot-Aro Kujo

      Jot-Aro Kujo

      Tbh that’s why I’ve never gone to my school’s LGBT group. They seem very... well, LGBT without the plus, if you get what I mean

    2. techno

      techno

      my school's club is explicitly inclusive but i STILL avoid it because we all know that's just a formality and aspec people still get thrown under the bus

  5. aaaand the aphobes have found my aro blog. Great.

    1. Jot-Aro Kujo

      Jot-Aro Kujo

      Oh boy, lucky you :/

  6. I always wonder whether aces prioritise their asexuality in the same way us aros seem to tend to and then I remember I am ace and then I realise that I actually just wonder about alloro aces

  7. gonna go see Shonen Knife tonight lads!!!

    1. Jot-Aro Kujo

      Jot-Aro Kujo

      YOOOOOO NICE!! Have fun!

    2. arokaladin

      arokaladin

      (It was awesome btw)

  8. I just want people to use the tumblr tag I made for aro content in my fandom... I want content... I can't be literally the only one making any cmoooon guys please :(

    1. Jot-Aro Kujo

      Jot-Aro Kujo

      God I feel you. Forget "if you want something done right, do it yourself," for aros in fandom it seems if we want anything done at all we have to do it ourselves. :/

  9. I've done three and a half pages of notes today and I am very proud of myself but it's overshadowed by the knowledge that I am unlikely to ever be this productive again.

  10. me: hey maybe don't make characters ooc just so u can ship something abusive?????
    some fuck: ummm Actually what about bdsm???? headcanoning a character as kinky is totally the same as mischaracterising them so they're violent to their canon friends!!!!!!!!

    1. techno

      techno

      hfsahgdfg i saw that

      whomst the fuck asked for these people's opinions

    2. Cee Fox

      Cee Fox

      Or the iconic:

      "It's just fiction and it's not hurting anybody lol I can ship whatever I want"

  11. Ya boy is up at THREE AM stressing about sewing and rat health and it’s not fun

  12. Having friends was a bad idea the only way for no one to get hurt is for me to cut off ties to everyone and shut my stupid mouth forever 

  13. why are there goddamn thirteen year olds on tumblr with aesthetic blogs labelling themselves as aphobes like it makes them cool that's a) horrifying and b) embarassing

    1. Cavalier080854

      Cavalier080854

      The arrogance of youth. We were all like that at that age, only I didn't have social media as an echo chamber in the 60s. You were more likely to meet a fist if you were insufferable.

    2. Costati

      Costati

      I didn't know about that. It's depressing. I hate when some serious issues are being cutyfied or trendified by younger people. It's like the insult "retarded". It's a serious mental illness that makes life hard for a lot of people stop saying it like it's hyper degrading and negative. That's like gay also...a lot of time young people say "What are you gay or something" like it's the most mean thing they could think about when clearly it's not. There's nothing wrong with being gay or mentally retarded or aro either (obviously). It's overall very sad that hate and negativity is seen as being "cool" and "trendy" for younger people. I hope one day it will change and the cool kids would be the one that are really nice to everyone and are admired for being true to themselves and really brave. 

  14. wish I could... talk about aro issues in real life without feeling like an attention seeking embarrassment...

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    2. Costati

      Costati

      @Zorcodtoa Wow your mum sounds so much like mine. They would probably be great friends if mine wasn't so uninterested and repulsed by friendships.

  15. so turns out seeing her partner for the billionth time this month is more important to my friend than seeing me to celebrate my birthday ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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    2. arokaladin

      arokaladin

      my birthday's the 18th, and thank you I'll try to have fun anyway

    3. Cavalier080854

      Cavalier080854

      At least it is on a work free day. You did say there would be booze ?

    4. techno

      techno

      WOW hard relate. we'll have an arocalypse birthday party for you :aroicecream::aropride:

  16. every so often I get sad that my bad experience with one qpr means I no longer want one and I haven't thought about it for a while but here we are again I guess

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