arokaladin

My ex(from when I thought I was alloromo) told me that she still loved me and that the reason she broke up with her recent girlfriend was in order to be with me but because around the same time I had just figured out I was aro and came out to her, she had kept quiet about it until now and currently I kinda wanna punch a brick wall because my aro ass is taken by my lovely qpp and is not ready for this romance bs. 

how to tell boyfriend I mostly feel platonic love for him and don't really feel romantic or sexual attraction to him and wanna be queerplatonic without completely ruining out already shaky relationship ( : the answer is: dont and suffer because its too risky

how to tell boyfriend I mostly feel platonic love for him and don't really feel romantic or sexual attraction to him and wanna be queerplatonic without completely ruining out already shaky relationship ( : the answer is: dont and suffer because its too risky

how to tell boyfriend I mostly feel platonic love for him and don't really feel romantic or sexual attraction to him and wanna be queerplatonic without completely ruining out already shaky relationship ( : the answer is: dont and suffer because its too risky

Maybe I'm materialistic because stuff is more reliable than people... ?

Disappointment is finally finishing a skirt after like a week of working on it, excitedly trying it on, only to be met with the discovery that it needs a side zipper because you can't fit your butt in it

hm. it's only the second week of summer vacation and i'm already getting bored. what do i do??????????

Oh god, I just realized next month is pride month. Kill me.

Oh god, I just realized next month is pride month. Kill me.

And like, I guess there's always the gen Jojo server, but it's so small... We only have about four, maybe five actual active members, two of whom are more like semi-active...

I wish aro socks existed. But nobody wants to acknowledge us in their cutesy pride merch.

today i learnt that my mum is not accepting of aro/ace people. good to know. won't come out to her about it now that i know she won't understand or accept me.

i feel empty and lost.

I was actually pretty excited to plan an outfit for my sister's wedding this year... but no, turns out it's all being planned by the bride-to-be. I didn't know about this beforehand since I was six the last time I was anywhere near a wedding. Thanks, allos!

gonna go see Shonen Knife tonight lads!!!

Conflicted about prom and whether or not I should ask someone to be my platonic date.....All viable options are also alloromantics that have made a pass on me romantically and only other aro is taking their SAT

Conflicted about prom and whether or not I should ask someone to be my platonic date.....All viable options are also alloromantics that have made a pass on me romantically and only other aro is taking their SAT

My normal weekend schedule:

• Excitedly decide I'm going to spend all weekend working on my personal projects (writing, drawing, sewing projects, etc.)
• Friday: Be lazy and don't do them
• Saturday: Sorta do them
• Sunday: Get really excited to do them
• Sunday: Remember I do, in fact, have homework
• Sunday: Panic

Only fellow aros will understand the amount of TURNT I am when I listen to aromantic anthem Oh No by Marina and the Diamonds

WHEN WILL MARVEL LET ME WRITE X-MEN

Sewing a dress seemed like a much simpler idea before I learned that my bust measurement is so goddamn nonexistent that every bodice sloper tutorial I've found just Cannot Compute, and it's half a fucking foot smaller than the smallest size in Otome no Sewing

God I just want people to talk to about some of my aro headcanons, but god knows aro headcanons aren't hip and trendy enough in fandoms to warrant actual discussion beyond two or three isolated aros going "I think this character should be aro"

God I just want people to talk to about some of my aro headcanons, but god knows aro headcanons aren't hip and trendy enough in fandoms to warrant actual discussion beyond two or three isolated aros going "I think this character should be aro"

so just wondering when am i gonna be able to have an aro community OFF of the internet

I hope you guys are having a better, responsible, respectful, rested, relaxed and calmer day than I just did.

Let's just say today was the worst birthday I've so far had. 0/1000000000000 would rather forget for good.

"Meh meh fanfiction isn't real writing!" Mm yeah, hold up, I'll get back to you on that when I'm not 5 hours deep into extremely specific research about the details of living in one particular neighborhood in Cairo, Arabic naming conventions, Japanese sign language, the psychological effects of prolonged isolation, and vampire folklore in non-European cultures