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Blue Kafka

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  1. @running.tally yes, being patient is definitely the answer. thank you for your advise, dear. It's mean a lot to me.
  2. Thank you so much for your response guys @Zorcodtoa @Eklinaar @running.tally Much appreciated it! @Zorcodtoa you're so lucky. i wish people's around me won't bother about my relationship. Thank God my parents not too nosy about it, but they're still expecting me to get married one day even though i already gave them a hint that i don't want to do it. *sigh* @Eklinaar yes, i agree with you. It's hard to find someone who have the same prespective like us, not only in online dating but also irl. I wish we could find someone, who could at least, understand and accepted th
  3. I'm aromantic but allosexual. This year i'll turn 30, and as usual, on this age we seemingly being push to be in a relationship. I'm okay with being single but i guess i'm also feel okay with being in relationship with someone, as long as he was open minded with labels, which is hard to come by especially in the city/country that i'm living in. All of my best friends mostly married and have their own life to deal with. I guess I'm somewhat feels lonely since i lost my friends one by one. I have tried dating apps to find someone but in the end it was futile because i los
  4. I had a relationship with a guy for about 1 year relationship (middleschool to highschool). I feel like an ass since i'm the one who attracted to him first and pursued him. He responded to me by asking me out. We've dated and at first i thought i felt really happy cause my "crush" like me back guinenely. But no, turns out i felt suffocating. I don't understand why he wanted to meet up with me every weekend, why i must be with him every single day at lunch time at school and so on. I lost interest with him and broke up with him after trying to maintain our relationship for a year.
  5. @Costati hey, i've just read the "you might be aro if" thread and you're right, It's pretty funny because i find it related with me in almost every aspect Haha.. i never thought that there were people out there who have similar experience as me. and i'm agree with you. Every person is different so i guess there will be no perfect label for any of us, but at least by finding out that i'm aro have made me feel so relieve hehe
  6. This is interesting topics. I love to ship characters in fiction stories/movies especially if they have chemistry but it's strictly to gay (male) couple, not interested if it's hetero couple. Bromance is awesome, but relationship more than that is also awesome. I don't like shipping real people or fanfic based on real people. Romantic movie/story is a big no. I never find it interesting and i also hate it when characters (hetero) supposed to be best friends suddenly became an OTP. Like why? I hate it, why can't they just be friends. Lol.
  7. @Costati hehe okay got it. To be honest i'm still confused about myself, which labels of aro do i belong. Thank you for your info. I'll try to lurk around this forum too.
  8. @Costati & @arokaladin hey guys, sorry for late reply, it's been a while since i visit this forum. Thank you guys, i'm really glad that this forum is exist. If i want to ask deeper about aromantic trait, where should i go from here? Sorry to ask, i'm still confuse to use this forum.
  9. Hey~ i'm new here. You can call me either Blue or Kafka. Stumble upon this forum while i'm still confused about myself. In 30 years of my life i've just notice not too long ago that i might be an Aromantic person. I thought that i was different from the other because i'm an introvert. I feel that there was something wrong with me but turns out it wasn't the case at all. I'm so glad that i found this forum. So nice to know you all!
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