I feel like when an aro complains about romance to an allo, the allo would see them as a bitter single person. Like, yeah they're probably a bitter single person, but they aren't bitter because they're single. I just feel like there's no way to escape allos thinking that. Because allos like to think that we can't get any, rather than that we don't want any.
I dunno, I feel like I'm rambling.