Jot-Aro Kujo

Depends. If I'm looking for nostalgia, usually either the Clash (particularly anything off Combat Rock) or Fleetwood Mac. If I'm looking to get cheered up, eurobeat. If I'm looking to go to sleep, usually something by Gojira or Kaoru Akimoto.

Yeah, I’m not typically into shipping at all. Not in a romantic sense and extremely rarely in a QPR sense. I mean I don’t hate it I guess, I like a good Axlino fanart as much as the next girl, but there’s definitely fandom spaces where all people seem to care about is shipping and it’s like… Idk man, I just think there’s more to fiction than whatever characters people have apparently decided don’t have any value on their own, yknow?

I would advise against trying punk fashion if you’re not in the subculture. Punk is a counterculture with a long history that’s generally associated with specific philosophical and political beliefs, in addition to a specific music genre. You’re certainly welcome to experiment with punk-inspired elements, like denim or spiked hair, but I would not recommend calling yourself punk or dressing in an all-out punk style if you’re not prepared to commit to the punk lifestyle.

Um… I mean, a few of these, but man, I’m still using my PS2 and DS Lite. They still work just fine and the games are fun, so why not, lol

Greetings. What do you code? Do you have a Neocities?

Why would that make you a bad aro? “Aromantic” means “doesn’t/rarely experiences romantic attraction”, not “is homophobic” or “has some burning hatred of the concept of romance”. If people are telling you it’s wrong to like gay romance you can tell them the Reagan administration called, they want their philosophy back

Yeah. It's difficult, especially when you factor in other things like gender, ability to drive, race, etc., but it's possible. I find it works out best with other allo aro folks; I've got a close friend who's also aro and we've been fwb for a few years now.

I see. Well, I don't think I can help you there. Probably best to talk to either a therapist, or like, a kink group.

Hmm. Well, I'm not quite sure how to help you there. Is that the only thing bothering you? It sounds like you're ashamed of the concept of sexuality and arousal in general. Why?

Like… Specific ones, or just any kinks whatsoever? Also, you don’t have to censor the word “kink”. There’s nothing wrong with it.

Why are you ashamed?

Slayer? Testament?

It’s not a red flag. Kind of immature/trying too hard, but not malicious or concerning. Give it enough time and he’ll either get into them for real, or get bored and give up. You can also just tell him you’re not interested.

Why is this in the aromantic discussion topic tho

Personally I hate Plato, so I think it’s really funny to use “platonic” in a technically inaccurate way. lol

????? Who is out there saying “platonic friendship”?

Yeah, this is not normal behavior and definitely qualifies as sexual harassment.

Welcome! Always good to hear from other allo aros :)

That’s bizarre. I’ve never heard of this “base attraction” thing, sounds like a load of bullshit to me. That person needs to mind their business.

Does the difference matter?

Nah, it's pretty efficient, at least for me personally. If I just brush things off, in the end they're gonna come back to bite me in the ass, and it would also require detaching from my emotions and experiences to an unhealthy degree. It's better for me to tackle them head on and know that I have the support necessary to do so (from my friends and from Stardust Dragon, who is also my friend)

I also like Data, but my favorite is probably Jenny Wakeman :)

Nah, I get the Yugioh mentality. When things get tough I just remember that my friends and my trading cards believe in me, so I can do it if I just believe in the heart of the cards.

(Googles causticum) Ah! So you're feeding a child lye. YEAH I THINK SHE MIGHT ACT A LITTLE DIFFERENT IF YOU'RE POISONING HER YOU DIPSHIT. STOP IMMEDIATELY AND TAKE THAT KID TO A DOCTOR.

Does he, um, have an actual doctorate in anything or is he just handing shit out willy nilly? Lmao. If you think you're having some hormonal problems with sexual arousal and would like medical assistance (because that's what staphisagria does), that's something you can talk to your primary physician about, but probably not best to leave it to weird scam artists. And before anyone comes at me about something something colonialism or whatever, I'm pagan and latina. I very much believe in folk medicine, I just think you should always be aware and careful with what you put into your body, and "homeopathy" is usually code for "pyramid scheme where some unlicensed fuck tells you that rubbing essential oils on your skin (NEVER DO THIS) will cure your cancer". Take care.