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Jot-Aro Kujo

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  1. I see. And, uh, are you aware of what type of website this is?
  2. First of all I think you're on the wrong site friend 😅 Secondly... Your height? You think women choose potential partners based purely on height????? Did you eat something weird or what
  3. Big agree with this. Also, like… One could make the same argument that, say, people who are really into sports might be inclined to be aspec because they’re more interested in sports than romance and/or sex. But you never see that possibility pondered, do you?
  4. I think this might just be a your parents thing. My parents never did that.
  5. This is not true. Maybe that’s your experience, but it’s not every aro’s experience.
  6. Does it really matter? I mean, if you’re uncomfortable with romantic relationships, you’re uncomfortable with romantic relationships. Call yourself aro if you want, or don’t if you don’t want to, but the way you’re talking here you make it sound like you think you have two options: identify as aro, or pursue a romantic relationship. But like… You don’t have to do either of those things if you don’t want to. It’s fine to just not be in a romantic relationship. It’s also fine to identify how you wish and change your mind later if your feelings change. That being said, I don’t think it’s healthy for yourself nor fair to others to scrutinize people in search of signs of romance. In conclusion, just relax. Romance and your stance on it one way or the other isn’t the only thing that matters, and you don’t need to give yourself some sort of ultimatum over it. Focus on the things that make you happy, not putting yourself and others under a microscope all the time.
  7. No, like everyone said, this is not normal. Are you a woman who dresses strangely or hangs out with a lot of nerds? They might be Manic Pixie Dream Girl-ing you.
  8. Honestly being 16 is just kinda like that, especially for folks who aren't cishet. I mean, at that age not only are you learning a whole bunch of new shit, but you're also developing physically a lot- Quite literally, you're changing, because your brain is growing and hormones are starting to do different shit and all that. So like, it's a lot to take in. Don't rush it. Taking the time to think about things is good, but don't make yourself think it's some sort of life or death thing where you have to decide how you identify and what you want and who you are RIGHT NOW. You've got all the time in the world, you'll probably start to feel more settled within the next few years. I would definitely talk to someone about the panic attacks and hallucinations and such. Hallucinations in particular are NOT a normal part of growing up, so it's probably a good idea to have that looked into, especially if it happens again.
  9. Just because the food is good and the atmosphere is nice doesn't mean someone's going to want to eat it if they're not hungry.
  10. Hey, this is something you need to talk to an adult in those kids’ lives about. That’s sexual assault, regardless of whether the two of them are aware of it or not, and it needs to be dealt with right away. Tell the grandparents, a teacher, etc. Best of luck to your brother, I’m so sorry that’s happening to him.
  11. Jot-Aro Kujo

    Love?

    Is this a homework question?
  12. Reviving this thread to share my latest aro fic, centered around Johnny from Guilty Gear. Warning for mild sexual content/discussions of sex. https://archiveofourown.org/works/49401187
  13. Uh, could y’all maybe like, make a separate thread for Barbie movie spoilers, or at least use the spoiler function? Not everyone has seen it yet…
  14. I mean, is it that you want to be the same gender as them? Or are you jealous someone's afforded certain social freedoms that are typically available only to people who play a certain gender role?
  15. Jot-Aro Kujo

    Real Talk

    ??? But this isn’t the anonymous Q&A section, so you can pretty clearly see everyone’s usernames…
  16. Sounds like romantic attraction to me. Didn’t you already ask this once? I’m not saying that to be mean or anything- It’s just that I remember this story, so why not try going back and pondering the answers people gave last time? Also, have you spoken to any alloromantic lesbians about your experience?
  17. Yeah, pretty much. They've spent their whole lives taught to believe that everyone experiences romantic attraction, that everyone wants to experience romantic attraction, that everyone has to experience romantic attraction. And, since they do experience it, they've never had any reason to doubt this. They can't comprehend the idea of someone existing outside their prescribed social model, in the same way that a lot of white people are baffled by my culture's multi-generational household structure.
  18. Obsessed with the way Johnny's hat gets wider and wider every game. He's like vertical Doug Dimmadale

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      Jot-Aro Kujo

      HORIZONTAL I MEANT HORIZONTAL

  19. I dunno, is there? Do you want to? Think about it. It’s your choice.
  20. Personally, I’m not afraid of death. Lots of my family is dead, it happens to everybody. I still care about them and talk to them, so what is there to be scared of? In my culture death is just another part of life. I think a lot of people fear death because their cultures teach them to do so, that it’s something you should never talk about and only ever be scared and upset about, but it’s not. It’s just a thing that happens. Like Oingo Boingo said, no one lives forever.
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