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EliseFish

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  • Name
    Elise
  • Orientation
    Oriented Aromantic Asexual
  • Gender
    Female
  • Pronouns
    She/her

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  1. I'm the friend uwu <3 But all jokes aside, I learned so much about you through this post, like wow. I- This is so cool. I am learning more about my friend. I like it when I do that (in a non creepy way). Welcome to the forum i guess! Even though I'm also a newbie... <3 ily (platonically)
  2. I hang out with boys a lot (I'm a girl), and people automatically assume I like them. I have this one friend who's into classical music like me, and we would often hum tunes and have eachother guess what it is. When we forget the name of a piece, we also hum it out and see if the other person knows it. We're also in the same orchestra, so if one of us hums a tune of the piece we're working on, the other will join in. However, this is all purely platonic, a friendship that is built on music. (And I may have a certain amount a platonic attraction directed towards him, but certainly not romantic). A week ago, when I was hanging out with some of my other friends, I asked them who they saw me with. I was expecting no one, because I'm don't really display signs of attraction to anyone. So imagine my surprise when they said it was the boy I mentioned above. So, this is just soceity's assumption that as long as a person are close friends with another person of an opposite gender, they are in love. They are completely ignoring the fact that platonic relationships between two different genders can exist. Maybe it's a side effect of romance being proritised above all, but I'm not really sure. Whatever it is, it's really annoying, and it actually hurts people. One of my other friend (also male) stopped talking with me as much after he heard that people were "shipping" me and him together, and it made me really sad. Which is also why I hate shipping real people. In addition, sometimes when I talk to boys, people sorta stalk me to here what we're talking about. I've once found a person hiding beind a potted plant while talking to one of my male friends. It's very annoying, and it's an invasion of privacy. I'm going to just put it out there, people who ship real people who are not comfirmed to be in a relationship yet, are just destroying other people's lives with not regrads for their feelings, just for a bit of drama in their lives. Thanks for coming to my Ted talk.
  3. Um... First of all, I'm new to this entire forum thing, so if I do something wildly stupid, please don't be mean. I'm not even sure if I'm posting this in the right place. Well, so here goes! I'm go by Elise, but obviously that's not my real name. My pronouns are she/her and I'm most likely straight. I'm aromantic, as basically everyone on here, and I, more specifically, identified as an oriented aroace. (I'm not that sure about the ace part, since I haven't really experienced it, and I'm unsure where the standards of "ace" lie, but I'm just going to put it there for now). I do experience aesthetic attraction quite often, and lots of platonic attraction. I'm am relatively new to this, and I may be demiromantic/demisexual. But I feel like oriented aroace would fit me better. I found out because I originally thought I was bisexual, since "0=0", I figured out I felt the same for both genders, so I must be bi. Yeah, I was a bit stupid. While I was basically exploring the LGBTQ+ community, I came across aromantism, and Jaiden's Animations. As I watched her videos, I had a certain level of relatablitly, and I just realized "Wow, I might be aroace!". I did some more research and stumbled across "oriented aroace a bit later, and found that it fit me very well, and I identified as that from thereon. About my overall personality (I literally do not know what to write so I'm going to dump everything on here), I'm usually very bright, but like most people, I do have a dark side, and know more things than people expect me to. I love reading, writing, music (playing it and listening to it), and food. I have a very specific preference for Chinese food (I'm Chinese), garlic bread, and Japanese food. I'm aiming to write an original novel with an aromantic main character but I don't think I'll publish it. I will be your friend, but if you suddenly leave me without any explaination, I will track you down and find out why. I'm very clingy, and will freak out if people leave me on read. (Ok, sorry for all that excess info you did NOT need to know) As of his time period, I have not yet told my family, they do want me to get married and have children sometime in the future, and I don't want to dissapoint them so soon. So, sorry for the word dump and all the unecessary information I bombarded you with. Bye!
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