Alyssia

12 hours ago, Jot-Aro Kujo said:

I feel like "more than friendship" isn't a good choice of words... "Different from friendship" or "More emotionally intense than friendship" would be fair, but I dislike the term "more than friendship" in general because it conveys the sense that friendship is inherently beneath other forms of relationships. That's not cool. I can't imagine anyone loving anything more than I love my friends!

That being said, could what you're experiencing possibly be a squish? If so, you're definitely not the only person who experiences stuff like that

absolutely I agree with the first part I did choose the wrong words

yes maybe it is a squis as you said and I'm not the only person who experiences it but it may be the first time for me and I'm still trying to understand how to behave in front of these feelings 

hello my fellows

I have a question for you 

have you ever been attracted by someone in a not traditional way? 

I explain better.. I have this friend and I feel something uncommon for her

I'm like attracted but I can't understand how and I mostly want her to like me and to be interested in me... it's odd because I can't understand what I feel for her or want from her but I feel something that I don't feel for anyone and I was thinking this is the way aroace people feel attracted by others ahahaha I don't know 

the question more easily is: what do you feel when you "like" someone

something that goes further than friendship

thank you and sorry if I wrote too much and I hope someone can understand what I mean 

When I was 15 I thought I was lesbian because I wasn't really interested in boys and then i hav had a crush on a couple of girls and this made me believe i was gay... as the years go by i figured out that i wasn't really interested in girls neither

Now if i think about that crush i realize that i wasn't romantically attracted

When I was younger, like 13\14 years, my school mates were interested in finding a boyfriend or a girlfriend.. I didn't care and i thought that maybe we were still too young and they were just pretending..

Now I'm 17, everyone is always looking for a partner and i don't think they all pretend ahaha but i don't care and I don't understand why it's so important for everyone

YMBAI you find it difficult to play the fuck marry kill game 

YMBAI you feel unconfortable when someone flirts with you and you would like to disappear