I recently kind of accepted" I was aro, which was really tough because I was really sad I couldn't experience the hype (never felt a crush before or any romantic attraction). But I also happened to see a therapist and brought up me not being able to romantically attract to someone, and they said something about being scared of commitment. I'm pretty sure at this point I'm not Allo, but if there's a chance I could feel that romantic attraction shouldn't I see if its something I can do through therapy? I really have no idea.
