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I'm a Chinese aroace. My parents aren't against the LGBTQ+ community, but they don't understand it and they don't really care. My mum is super fixated on me getting married to a boy, and even though I've tried to tell her that I don't want to get married without telling her I'm aromantic, she won't listen to me. It's pretty frustrating because I know that it would take a lot of time and explaining to get my mum to understand, and even then I don't know if she'll support me (and my extended family aren't much better either)

So I've been playing with the idea of coming out for a while, but I really don't know anything about it and I can't really make a decision knowing nothing. I was wondering what coming out is like, how people react, and how you feel about yourself before and after coming out. Any reply means a lot, since I have no idea what I'm doing and I'm not sure whether it's a good idea or not. Thanks!