short: bi, ace biromantic, ace panromantic, aroace, ace & arospec pan, ace/arospec sapphic, aroace oriented sapphic
i don't think i ever thought about my sexuality up until this girl i was friends with said something along the lines of "you're cute when you blush" and then i immediately went through this second of "oh wait im bi" and just,,,, went from there. i labelled as ace biromantic, then panromantic (as the person who i liked began identifying as enby. eventually i was like "wait i dont like anyone maybe im arospec" and then i realized that oh, i like someone else. and then i began adding greyromantic and eventually demiromantic too, in addition to identifying as panromantic. eventually realized i liked girls or feminine people only and stuck sapphic on instead of pan. and im probably just very strongly demi, but aroace fits better, so here we are.
