Robin144

I am wondering how often do alloromantic ppl have crushes like how many crushes have average 15yo allo had and how old are usually allos, when they have their first crush.

People on the autism spectrum are more likely to be aromantic.

I have read a lot of definitions of dating and a lot of definitions of romantic relationship. I do not understand any of them. What actually is dating? What's the difference between dating and other ways of spending time with someone? What actually is romantic relationship? Is it like friendship + holding each other hands and kissing?

For a while I thought I got squishes at boys only and didn't know why. But now I have 2 squishes who aren't boys (girl and enby). I found out I actually have never cared about gender. I have squishes on autistic people only and for a long time I didn't know any autistic people who weren't boys.

Oh yeah totally. It's so cringe and annoying!

Hi, I'm new. My name is Robin or Inge. At first I chose name Inge, which is seen as gender neutral in my country (Poland) but then I found out it's seen as a feminine name in some countries, so I chose name Robin to online communication with people all around the world. I prefer they/them pronouns but I'm fine with he/him or xe/xem too. I'm 15 yo and I'm autistic. My gender identity is trans-masculine nonbinary. I'm questioning my orientation and I think I might be aro. I wonder if I'm actually aromantic or just my experience of romance is different because of autism. I also wonder if a feeling I sometimes feel towards some people is romantic atraction or feeling a few different types or atraction at the same time. I hope this forum helps me to find out my romantic orientation. Sorry for my bad English.