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  1. I'm 25 and I've never had a relationship. I've tried going on some dates (thinking maybe I just need to meet the right person...), but anything more than that? Nah. Just the thought of that feels absurd to me. Sometimes people talk about their relationship and said 'it just kind of happened', but seriously, how? Sometimes I'm tired of being the odd one out and I wonder if I should try harder, but I'm not sure if it's worth the effort.
  2. I guess you're looking for a queerplatonic relationship. Me too, but it seems pretty much impossible to find someone who's interested in that. Pretty much everyone prefers a romantic partner
  3. I went on a date tonight... So terrible, I don't know why I said yes. At least the movie was good. (Doctor Strange!)

  4. I'm not really affectionate towards anyone to be honest, so I don't have that problem. Sometimes I do forget that romance plays a huge part in many people's lives though. Like when I'm talking to people and they keep mentioning their SO. Or when I meet someone for the first time and 'so, do you have a boyfriend?' is one of their first questions... I just don't get that.
  5. It took me a while. I had heard about aromanticism before, but I didn't want to believe I was aro. I just wanted to be happy and in love like everyone else! So I forced myself to try online dating and I went on a few dates. They were nice people, and I guess I felt some aesthetic attraction as well. But anything romantic (them flirting with me or touching me) made me SO uncomfortable. I (unfortunately) remember getting my first kiss at this party and when it (finally) was over I just kinda freaked out and hid in the bathroom for a while, lol. After that I started to realize that maybe romance isn't for me.
  6. I don't know if this is just because I got older or because I discovered aromanticism, but when I was younger I was sooo worried about not having any relationship experience. I thought there was something wrong with me and I felt like some kind of loser. Luckily I don't care anymore. I don't need to experience something just to fit in, I've accepted myself
  7. I'm also not entirely sure where I am on the spectrum. It has happened that I liked someone, but felt repulsed when they liked me back. But I've also felt sad about rejection before. It makes me wonder how I would've reacted if I hadn't been rejected, would I have actually liked that? It's hard to say, I have no relationship experience. I'm thinking I maybe just like the idea of romance and I like to aesthetically/platonically admire people, but I doubt I actually want a serious romantic relationship.
  8. I kind of forced myself to try, so I did go on a few first dates... Haven't been even remotely close to a relationship though. No idea how that would even happen. An actual relationship seems so alien to me?
  9. Yeah, this. I've played games like that before, I think they're pretty fun Today my coworker was talking about this wedding he attended this week, apparently it was sooo special and romantic, it was really impressive. And then he talked about how beautiful marriage is, how wonderful it is when two people are so in love they decide to spend the rest of their lives together. I had to do my best not to just roll my eyes.
  10. Yep, this happens to me as well. And it always hurts when they seem to prefer hanging out with other people.
  11. I ship Destiel (Supernatural), but more in a queerplatonic way, I guess. I also headcanon Dean as aro (or at least greyro) and Castiel as ace.
  12. I want to work as a makeup artist. My biggest dream is to go abroad and work on a big TV/film set, but that probably isn't very realistic, so doing something like that in my own country would be fine as well Besides that, I want to get my own apartment (living with a friend would be nice as well, if I ever meet someone who'd be up for that) and maybe a cat. And I'd like to travel a bit.
  13. Hi there fellow Dutchie!
  14. I'm a shipper and I love fanfic. Fluff, smut, angst, everything. (I guess this makes me a bad ace as well.) I actually do like the idea of romance. I don't really have any intense friendships.
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