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It’s a secret :)
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Trans, Asexual
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Hi! I’ve kinda come to realize that while I’m definitely repulsed by being in a romantic relationship irl, I’m really not repulsed by the idea of an online relationship. In fact I’m actually pretty interested in one. Does anyone know if there is a word for this?
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Is it normal to not understand other asexuals?
SquishyWing replied to a topic in Sexuality and Gender
I’d say I’m very similar to this myself. I kinda like the idea of romance and s*x but am totally repulsed with actually being in a relationship involving either. -
Ok, so I (secretly to everyone I know irl) identify myself as being a femboy. However, I struggle to find the confidence to actually express myself the way I’d like to. Whenever I’m around anybody who knows me as acting a certain way, it’s difficult to confidently act as feminine as I’d like to. Also, my lack of feminine outfits to wear in private isn’t exactly helping things since I still live with my parents and have no real way to obtain anything without their knowledge. So, does anybody have any advice to just feel more confident with expressing myself the way I’d like?
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I’ve never been a big fan of Valentine’s Day, largely because I struggle to get close to people in general, so I’ve always watched other people enjoy celebrating their friendships and relationships, feeling like it’s something I’m almost completely unable to participate in. Although tbh now I just ignore the fact that it’s supposed to be a “special” day at all.
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I also have Asperger’s, and I would not be surprised if that played some part in my being part of LGBTQ
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For most of my life, I’ve identified as male since I was born that way. However, I’ve been considering whether I’m trans, but a few things have made me unsure. Firstly, I don’t feel any kind of gender dysphoria. In fact, I feel like I’m physically male but more mentally female, if that makes sense. Secondly, I know that even if I was absolutely certain that I was trans, it would be really difficult for me to start feeling comfortable identifying as such. Do you think this means that I’m not really feeling this way or am I just not feeling confident about it atm? This has been really annoying to deal with, so I’d really appreciate any help you can give :)
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In my Spanish class, we’ve been watching some movie (called: Fools Rush In) where two people meet for the first time, have one conversation, accidentally get pregnant in one night, and then get married. Obviously this is supposed to be somewhat over the top, but the fact that people really do try to develop relationships instantly has never made sense to me.
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NOW: 1: Meal: Lasagna2: Snack/desert/junk food: Idk, I like a lot since I have a really bad sweet tooth lol3: Movie: Either Back to the Future or Avengers Endgame4: TV show: I don't watch tv much now5: Book/Series: Probably Percy Jackson6: Music/Song: A variety of songs, one of which is this: 7: Animal: Dogs 8: Game: Overall, probably Geometry Dash, however I find other games more enjoyable for short periods of time9: Hobby: Gaming and Video Editing10: Idea for a strange law that you'd like to pass: Law would ban people from being stupid in public places where they get in other people's ways lol - - - - - - - - - - AS A KID: 1: Meal: Macaroni and Cheese2: Snack/desert/junk food: M&Ms or Milky Ways3: Movie: Avengers4: TV show: Gravity Falls5: Book/Series: American Chillers6: Music/Song: I didn't really listen to music much at all growing up 7: Animal: Probably dinosaurs or something 8: Game: Super Mario9: Hobby: Gaming 10: Idea for a strange law that you'd like to pass: No school probably
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Attractions Prioritised in Advocacy: Ace vs. Aro
SquishyWing replied to Scoop's topic in Intersectionality
I’m an aegoromantic allosexual, and I have noticed that fact that aroace is considered the general way of being, yet I almost certainly don’t fall into it. It’s honestly kinda annoying, but it doesn’t bother me too much tbh. The fact that I don’t feel romantic attraction, but do feel sexual attraction (just don’t currently want to seek anything atm) just makes me feel different, but I’ve come to be used to it. -
can an aromantic person fall in love?
SquishyWing replied to Just a Bear's topic in Aromantic Discussion
I feel like it depends on your definition of love, really. You could say that falling in love is only romantic, but you could argue that someone can fall in love platonically as well. Personally, I believe that aros can fall in love, just not the same way as alloromantics -
True because school language classes have played those instead of reading themselves. TPBM is/was smart in school
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1. I’ve had between 1-3 squishes every year for the last 6 years or so, and I probably fall somewhere between 5 and 19 total. 2. Over a year, and it’s my current squish, so I feel like that carries some meaning. Most would fade either after a few days or at the end of the school year when I would no longer see them frequently. However, this one has grown, despite the usual setbacks (if setbacks is the right word. Hopefully you know what I mean) 3. I would say that gender usually factors into who I squish. I have only ever squished females, and I think that the way they look has played just as much of a role as the actually important factors such as personality, interests, etc.
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I’ve had several squishes over the years, and for a while I always mistook them for being crushes, which looking back I know they definitely weren’t. My current squish is a girl who’s a year younger than me. She’s smart, funny, honestly kinda cute, and just a great person to be around. We’ve talked a few times but I wouldn’t really say we’re close yet. Hopefully I’ll get an opportunity to become better friends with her though :)