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Ryan

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  1. When searching for an answer one can't just look for the answer one wants to hear. I admit I read what you all said and wanted to reject it as it was not the story I was looking for...but you are right. I don't know for sure if she is aromantic but regardless I need to let her make her decision and focus on healing. Our song may not be over but I can't force, manipulate or coerce her to joining in unless she wants to. So yah...Im most definitely a romantic and find even the idea of aromantiscm as alien. I wasn't even aware that people could be that way until I tried to understand where she is coming from. A good reminder that polarized thinking is usually erroneous.
  2. hello everyone...my girlfriend of close to two years just broke up with me because she claims she loves me but doesn't have romantic feelings. From the start she warned me (as did her best friend) that she had never had them though she thinks she may have at about 10 years old. After a bit of research I found this site and wanted to find some help. I love her passionately and from the start I told her I was okay with her being that way...but suddenly just before I proposed she broke it off. For those of you that are aromantic do you have any articles or other resources that can help her see that there isn't anything wrong with her and that is an actual thing. I would like to understand her better and I do want to marry her. Yet I need her to be secure with how she is. Also I have limited time as she may be leaving the country. Thanks everyone. Im at work now so didnt search this site to much so please feel free to send me there. She is quite scholarly so medical journals would be the best source. She said the only reason was the lack of feeling so I hope if I can show her there isn't anything wrong with how she feels I think we can work it out.
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