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Amarill

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  1. On 6/2/2019 at 8:51 AM, treepod said:

    -I tend to feel totally aromantic like 90% of the time. I find it useful to tell people that I'm just not interested in anyone "that way," because the odds are overwhelmingly not in anyone's favor. I feel like the stars have to be aligned, the wind has to be going at 5.7 mph, and someone in the next room has to sneeze, but it can happen. lol

    -When I do feel romantically attracted to someone, it almost always seems pretty minimal, or unreliable, compared to most people. I can easily brush it off if there's a condemning factor like the person already being in a relationship, or not attracted to guys, etc. (I count this within the 90% aro part because it's all very logic-based). Also, I've had a lot of "crushes" turn out to be squishes, and being real close friends with someone is completely satisfying to me, no real need to go any further. 

    -The other 10% accounts for maybe just a couple of instances in my whole life, where I've been completely gobsmacked. I know there's a difference because I have no control over it logically like I normally do and there's an obvious physical element (though not what I'd call sexual). Still, it's hard to tell what I really want (a romantic relationship? a QPR? something in between?)

    <- I can totally relate to this. :-)

  2. On 31. 7. 2016 at 7:17 PM, techno-trashcan said:

    Why is it that, once people get into a romantic relationship, they only want to talk to their friends if they're significant other isn't around? Like, why do friends become second best?

     

    Yeah, exactly! Thats so not fair. One of my best friends started dating like 4 months ago and I practically haven´t seen him ever since (we used to hang out every weekend).

    Why is suddenly some random girl he knows few months more important than 4 years of solid friendship. 

    I´m partly mad and partly sad :/ 

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