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so i'm in a facebook group for women in my city to like, make friends/do stuff together, and someone posts that she's "seeking some successful ladies who are in happy, healthy relationships and looking to expand their social circle" and i'm like, ?? why do they have to be in relationships? like yeah you're free to pick the criteria for your own friendships; i just...don't understand.
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Maybe she wants to do couple-related activities, like double-dates or something?
wow, you're more positive than me. my thought was 'oh shit, pyramid scheme'. like she was targetting 'successful' women with husband's money to throw at stuff, but with a safe sounding post.
maybe thats just my cynicism towards local facebook groups though.
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my best friend and i sometimes hang out with these other 2 girls and in the group chat one girl said that the guy she's been seeing is now her bf and the other girl said she should "spread that (success in getting a partner) to the rest of us" and i'm thinking, speak for yourself lol
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my best friend is seeing this guy who lives kind of far away so they agreed to "keep it casual" but she's sure she's going to "catch feelings" and whenever she talks about it i have no idea what to say (she knows)
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lmao someone emailed me and addressed me as luna, then sent a follow-up email apologizing for the wrong name but ironically addressed that one to elsie. well, she's getting closer.
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*mildly nsfw* guys i'm cursed. ok so last month i was supposed to have these guys over for a threesome and got ghosted (we got as far as agreeing on a day--last thing i said was a time, no response). then a platonic date to a concert ghosted me (i had an amazing time anyway, i usually go alone). and finally this guy and i had actually agreed to meet at this bar tonight (hookup implied) and he stood me up. i hope it's true that things come in threes and not more.
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i'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you didn't mean to sound critical of me when it's clearly the other people who behaved rudely. i believe i take rejection better than the vast majority of people--for instance, if i asked someone to do something with me and they said no, i would accept it without a second thought--but to say yes, even to be the one to ask me, to show enthusiasm, to make the commitment, and then disappear without a trace, is simply rude. four people in a row (one was a woman btw). the point isn't that the planned activities didn't happen, but that they were planned. again, if you don't want to do something, don't suggest/agree to it. if you do and then change your mind, text me. i'm not in deep distress lol but i am disappointed by the seemingly universal lack of basic manners and i don't think that makes me unreasonable. my friends agree. and i certainly don't blame myself. now i've said everything about it that i'd like to, and more.