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i might be going to a seminar on platonic affection and love languages! i just saw it on fb. in the description they didn't mention aromanticism but they did mention amatonormativity; it sounds cool.
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i find myself thinking i'd like to meet a guy...exactly what sort of relationship i want, i don't know, but i've been single for almost 3 years and, well, if nothing else it would stir up some drama in my life. ?♀️
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i saw someone (not on here) whose username had 'aro' in it so i messaged her asking, "like aromantic?" she goes "how do you know???" apparently she'd never met any others. we had a good chat.
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off topic but after i relapsed with self harm i asked my roommate to take my blades (and the one from the blender, in case). it was uncomfortable but i'm kind of proud of myself. you have to make deliberate decisions to heal.
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It's good that you have friends like that. I think it's really important to recognise that we can't do everything by ourselves (actually, it may be unhealthy to tell ourselves that we can, particularly when trying to make positive changes in our lives to do with breaking old habits?) and to feel able to ask for support from other people. Even (especially?) when it feels awkward to do it.
Now I just need to try taking my own advice there more, hah.
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I reckon it takes a bit of practice to pick up on things earlier, before they get out of hand. A bit like keeping your balance on a tightrope or slack line (I was trying this the other day, lol). At first you make a few big movements and fall off a lot; but if you can learn to make a lot of smaller, more frequent corrections, you keep your balance better (random analogy, but maybe it helps?)
I'm doing better recently, actually. Made myself get out of the house more to interact with people. It helps.
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