time-is-ticking
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i hope being sick is a good enough excuse not to study because otherwise i'm going to drown in guilt and anxiety.
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@running.tally thank you ❤️
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The (not so) Nice Guy is back and he wants to be friends. No thank you.
Someone should write a song for Nice Guys Who Cannot Take a Hint.
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today i learnt that my mum is not accepting of aro/ace people. good to know. won't come out to her about it now that i know she won't understand or accept me.
i feel empty and lost.
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my friend, who knows i'm aro, basically looked like the winky face when we were listening to my favourite songs a week ago. because apparently they are songs about romantic love.
what she doesn't get is that i listen to them /despite/ the romance.
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I just got asked out on a date. Though I knew it was coming and that he would eventually ask, I still feel unprepared. I do not want to go on a date with him or anything like that, but saying "no" apparently isn't working, considering this is the third time he's suggested being more than friends. To be honest, I don't even want to be friends with him in the first place.
This sucks.
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Send him this song:
It's not the most polite thing to do but if he keeps asking you and making you uncomfortable when you clearly said no that's called harassment and that's a serious issue that you don't have to go through. Guys can't except you to respect them when they're clearly not respecting you and this song is also really cool and I'm really glad for it. Because for once we have the friendzone from the point of view of the person who friendzone and not the other way around. -
@Costati Thank you for the awesome song!!
He doesn't even get to be my friend though, not after today. I didn't reply to his message about going out on a date yesterday, which he got angry about because he thought I was ignoring him on purpose (which I was). Today I was therefore welcomed by a long rant about how he has no friends and everyone leaves him, how it's unfair that people don't like him and that he is considering moving somewhere else or taking his life because he's never had a girlfriend.
I basically told him to fuck off after that.
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That's so sad that this guy ils trying to guilt trip you into a relationship. Like okay you're sad so what you're gonna pressure someone (and an aro at that) in a relationship they'll clearly feel sad about because I guess if it's someone other than you who's sad that's okay ?! What is wrong with people (and mostly men because I've never actually seen or heard about a girl doing that) that think they deserve us because...they're sad (or sometimes it's because they've been nice to us..beeing nice to someone is not doing nice things for them in hope they will bang you in return...that's just called being a manipulative d-bag ). This is such a stupid mentality. Good on you for being strong about it
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