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    Lisa
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  1. I just got asked out on a date. Though I knew it was coming and that he would eventually ask, I still feel unprepared. I do not want to go on a date with him or anything like that, but saying "no" apparently isn't working, considering this is the third time he's suggested being more than friends. To be honest, I don't even want to be friends with him in the first place.

     

    This sucks.

    1. Costati

      Costati

      Send him this song: 

       
      It's not the most polite thing to do but if he keeps asking you and making you uncomfortable when you clearly said no that's called harassment and that's a serious issue that you don't have to go through. Guys can't except you to respect them when they're clearly not respecting you and this song is also really cool and I'm really glad for it. Because for once we have the friendzone from the point of view of the person who friendzone and not the other way around.

    2. time-is-ticking

      time-is-ticking

      @Costati Thank you for the awesome song!!

      He doesn't even get to be my friend though, not after today. I didn't reply to his message about going out on a date yesterday, which he got angry about because he thought I was ignoring him on purpose (which I was). Today I was therefore welcomed by a long rant about how he has no friends and everyone leaves him, how it's unfair that people don't like him and that he is considering moving somewhere else or taking his life because he's never had a girlfriend.

       

      I basically told him to fuck off after that. 

    3. Costati

      Costati

      That's so sad that this guy ils trying to guilt trip you into a relationship. Like okay you're sad so what you're gonna pressure someone (and an aro at that) in a relationship they'll clearly feel sad about because I guess if it's someone other than you who's sad that's okay ?! What is wrong with people (and mostly men because I've never actually seen or heard about a girl doing that) that think they deserve us because...they're sad (or sometimes it's because they've been nice to us..beeing nice to someone is not doing nice things for them in hope they will bang you in return...that's just called being a manipulative d-bag ). This is such a stupid mentality. Good on you for being strong about it :aroicecream:

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