Aliyiah

I go to a university/college in germany, so it's different in terms of system but there's no sex ed here that all happened in my previous school when we were about 13. It was really uncomfortable but at least we were split females/males (there's another can of worms that I won't go into rn) but they didn't talk about sexualities. I know I learned about those from YouTube videos and creators that came out, no word in the class that's supposes to teach you these things.

As for now, I'm open to two people in my semester bc one of them is also ace but the general opinion is amatonormativity sadly. There's also no clubs or stuff to educate people and if people don't go in my face with that stuff I generally don't care. I'm just too stressed out with my projects to educate other people ?

idk, this song just makes me happy and gives me chills at the end ?

On 8/12/2019 at 7:06 PM, The Angel of Eternity said:

I would really hope that, if she sees you as a good mom, she isn't meaning "HAVE A CHILD RIGHT THIS MOMENT!!!"

Not right now but she's going on about wanting to have grandkids some day ?

On 5/15/2019 at 12:03 AM, The Angel of Eternity said:

My sister got married a couple days ago and a few days before the wedding my sister, my mom and the groom's mom were preparing. Here's a little conversation that occurred:

 

My sister [to me]: Do you think you'll get married someday?

Me: No, I don't want to.

My sister: Are you being serious or are you just saying that?

Me: I'm serious.

My mom [to my sister]: He still has time to think about it.

 

I think what my mom said implied that I would come around to marry one day.

 

 

Edit:

Speaking of weddings and other formal family events, here's another situation that kind of irks me. I was dressed up for the wedding and people repeatedly told me I looked handsome. I do not like to be called handsome or good-looking. Does anyone else feel this way?

That sounds like my mum, just with kids.

She insists I would be a great mum and everytime she meets one if my friends she asks if they're my SO and if I'm dating someone. I told her a couple of times I don't want kids but she's just like, you still have time and you'll change your mind eventually.

Also I'm 20, like I'm in uni and don't have any free time so great idea to have a kid.

I have two chevron bracelets I made with the aro and ace flag (it's an arrow pattern).

I want to get a shirt or hoodie with aropride ^^

You could approach it carefully (for lack of a better word) and just test the waters.

I know I didn't come out to my mum because she's always asking if I have a boyfriend and she's always disappointed if I say no.

So I told her I don't want to date anyone right now, without explaining my aroness or that I don't actually want a SO and just watched her reaction.

Even if your mum told your family, she would just say that you wouldn't want it right now.

Whatever you do, do it if you're comfortable and feel safe.

I hope this was of some help ?

I was in a romantic relationship and it lasted one year and a half, then we broke it off but he's still my best friend.

Would I want it again? I get the feeling of wanting a romantic relationship when looking at the picture movies and the media in general are painting but it's different in real life. I'm not really searching for a romantic relationship, and if it does happen again I wouldn't want to be doing romantically coded things (in my previous relationship that wasn't a problem and he understood the aroness to a point).

Long story short, I get and have had that feeling of wanting to be in a romantic relationship for the sake of being someone's important person but I'm not actively searching for one.

On ‎7‎/‎15‎/‎2019 at 1:10 PM, eOrion said:

I have - double lobe piercings on each ear, a helix, labret (middle of bottom lip), eyebrow, navel, septum, and today!! I got an industrial piercing!! I was terrified and my friend held my hand the entire time ♥

 I have double lobe piercings on each ear and a helix in my left one, which I really love.

Been wanting to get a tattoo on my left either upper arm or wrist, I still haven't decided on a design but it's not going to be too big.

I'm only out to two people about being on the aro-spec. The first one is my best friend, who is supporting but not really understanding (he just doesn't quite get it, also we've dated once and he just brings that up).

The other is another close friend of mine who is ace, she's been very cool about and she actually set me on the path to discover aromanticism because she came out to me.

Not out to my mum but I indirectly told her that I didn't want to date anyone and it's just frustrating how she always asks about my dating life and about the kind of relationship I have when I tell her of a new friend.

I feel like that a lot. I don't have the romance repulsion but still a lot of anxiety and just trust issues in general.

Although I'm lucky to have great friends right now, half of them have a SO and spend most of their time with them.

But moving to a bigger city and having a bunch of roommates, like @Emerald Cheetah said, sounds like a plan ^^

18 here ? 

I watched a lot of anime but he ones that stuck were: aoharu x kikanjuu, 07 ghost, yume-iro pâtissière and world trigger.

The anime I really liked though was gatchaman crowds, it's about a girl who gets handed a small book named NOTE by a transcendent being, which transforms her into one of the gatchaman. Their purpose is to eliminate aliens ( called MESS) that are a danger to humanity. As the name says they spread chaos.

The art style is quite unique, the genres are sci-fi and adventure (no romance ) and the characters are pretty different too

Proud Ravenclaw , though sometimes a bit slytherin.

Apparently Erudite in first and Candor in last ^^

Also I am (as it seems) a child of Zeus

Soo, I've never really thought about having Kids in the distant future but now that I do I probably don't want any.

It's not that I hate/dislike kids but I never really got along with them (?), I just can't relate to them and they seem to think I'm weird (kind of).

Also I think, should I ever want kids, I would probably adopt some because IMO there are so many children orphaned or given up for adoption that I would want to give them a home.

Also I don't know what the future will be like, and the current dirrection it's heading in is not a world I would want my children to have to live in.

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I recently found the series 'Lie to me', I'm only half through the first season but so far there's no romantic plot (some sidestory but not the main characters).

UUH..

These are the two songs stuck in my head currently (for the last week)

3 hours ago, Mark said:

This is something I find quite irritating. How it can be put in to tick some random box, rather than for sound reasons of character or plot.

Me too.

Most movies don't bring romance up until the last minutes where the characters then suddenly realize they are made for each other.

It doesn't have anything to do with the plot or something and I find myself often skipping the endings of such movies because of it.

Here's a part of 'I don't care by' Fall Out Boy

 Say my name and his in the same breath
I dare you to say they taste the same
Let the leaves fall off in the summer
And let December glow in flames

Erase myself and let go
Start it over again in Mexico
These friends, they don't love you
They just love the hotel suites, now

Here's the translation run through spanish, romanian, marathi, haitian and japanese

I will whistle at the same time as I say my name
I will tell you about the show
Autumn leaves in summer
Then, fire in December

Delete it,
Resume in Mexico
He does not want a friend
They love the hotel's best choice immediately,

On 26.9.2016 at 6:26 AM, justonetempest said:

Huh, so I got a 6 - and I was trying to be generous. Do people who are alloromantic really experience that many of the statements in that test??

I also got a 6, some of the questions were really weird..

I'm wondering what experiences the one who made the test had to have these answers

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I am not out to my parents or younger siblings, I don't think they would understand.

But my closest friends know what's going on and are totally fine with it.

I still think about coming out to my older sister, but I don't know what her reaction would be because we've kinda grown distant over the last two years..

I have been in one relationship  before that lasted about two months before I realized I was gray aro and he couldn't cope with it that I didn't have the same feelings as him, we haven't talked ever since.

Right now I am kinda starting a relationship with a close friend of mine who knows I'm gray aro.

wow, that looks amazing