Similar to the others here. I don't feel romantic attraction very often -- once every few years -- and, when I do, it's not the all-encompassing longing that I've heard others describe. While it'd be nice to have my feelings reciprocated, I'm not overly upset if it's not. I used to wonder if that meant I was aromantic, but that term didn't sound right to me because I've had strong-ish feelings for a couple of people in the past. "Gray" sounds about right.