PissLover2

Yea I feel this. As someone who has a lot of lesbian friends and has seen a lot of what goes on in the community I totally understand where you come from. I seen post about asexual lesbians being called a certain word back in the 90's(I forgot what it was called but it was a positive nickname) and how everyone was saying how cute it was. I see almost nothing about aro lesbians. I feel for all my aro wlws out there. I hope you guys get the rep you deserve

I'd say I am romance indifferent in most things. A lot of time, specifically in movies, I don't really care about romance and it mostly feels forced to me. In specific tv shows/games I am romance positive, I really like shipping and characters getting together but again I feel as though a lot of relationships are forced, particularly straight ones. IRL I'd say I am romance positive, I love seeing my friends happy with their partners and SOMETIMES with very, very few people I wouldn't mind cuddling. I like kisses and more sexual things like that since I am allosexual but romantic things make me feel really uncomfortable most the time.

I've seen this a couple times on here. I really would like to know what this means and what the relationship would be like. What it would entail. Is it like friends with benefits? I'm a newbie to all of this and the aro community

When I was in middle school I dated a couple people. All of the relationships ended after a few weeks with us not even talking to each other after the second week. At first in the relationship I would want to hang out with them and possibly do "unsavory" things with them but it never went that far. After the first two weeks of dating I would be completely uninterested in them. I would want nothing to do with them. I just thought I was broken, or a player, something along those lines anyway. Did anyone else have a similar experience to this? That how I felt aswell. I didn't and still don't want to marry at all. Whenever I was younger I always felt so pressured by all my family and friends to get married when I get older.