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Cocothecoconut

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  1. As an aro/ace i haven’t been in a nightclub before. I mean even though i somehow have sexual fantasies about making out in a nightclub, i wouldn’t do it in real life. I don’t think it’s autism friendly(in my case), cause there’s too many loud people, drunk weirdos and too much drama. I would actually love to join an EDM festival… If it was a livestream. So i don’t really think it has anything to do with me being aro/ace, it might just be the fear that prevents me from going to nightclubs. But if there were private clubs with few people i would have been interested in trying it out.
  2. As an aromantic(and also asexual), i do drink alcohol. But only in moderation, mostly because i don’t like the thought and idea of getting drunk. I only drink at family gatherings and parties, so i actually rarely drink alcohol. White wine and alcoholic drinks with flavors is my huge favorite 😍 I respect people who don’t drink. You don’t need to drink alcohol to have fun times.
  3. What makes me romance repulsed?: First my story Ever since i was a little girl i’ve never understood the whole meaning behind being in a relationship/married, i’ve never been interested in romantic movies, books or songs. When i was a teenager i’ve never had a crush on anyone cause i didn’t felt any romantic attraction towards boys or girls. Everyone in school talked about their crushes and romantic stuff and i was almost the only one who wasn’t interested in it at all and almost everyone i knew at college had a boyfriend/girlfriend and even had kids. I felt so different because i didn’t felt any romantic or sexual attraction towards anyone(expect for fictional characters). I felt like i was supposed to get married when i reached 20, because i thought that was the norm in my religious family. But when i found out that i was aro/ace i didn’t had to worry about the relationships/marriage stuff and that was very reliving. And my parents respect me for that and being childfree as well. So why am i repulsed by romance? It might sound rude and offensive but i try my best to write it in a politely way. I don’t understand why people would want to be in a relationship or getting married, i don’t understand the whole deal with it? Like yes i respect people for being in a relationship/getting married, i’m happy on their behalf. But i’m repulsed by the thought of being in a relationship/getting married myself and i’m not interested in it and don’t want it at all. I would much rather want close friendship, friendship is so much more valuable to me. I’ve never been in a relationship, dated anyone, had my first kiss and never had sex before so i don’t know anything about how it is to fall in love. And don’t feel any romantic attraction either. And romantic stuff doesn’t appeal to me either like kissing, cuddling, holding hands or anything else romantic. However i don’t mind romantic songs or books, as long as they don’t get married in the end. I don’t watch romantic movies either. Oh my gosh same here, i absolutely hate it.
  4. What i absolutely don’t like in romantic relationships is first of all the whole monogamy concept. Like why being with one person that you after some months or few days don’t feel any attraction, love or have any feelings for anymore? Secondly what i hate too is the kissing, cuddling, holding hands and eating valentines day chocolate together. I mean what’s the deal with being in a relationship/married? That’s why i don’t understand the whole valentines day concept.
  5. Hi Joey. I’m Coco(Liv is my real name though), i’m aro/ace. I don’t feel any romantic attraction or are interested in relationships or marriage either, i’m actually repulsed by it and the thought of myself being in a relationship or married to someone(both men/women/non-binary people and whatever gender there are). However close friendships is something i would love to have. I’m also living in a safe space and country. So that’s really nice ❤️
  6. As an aromantic i don’t understand why people would want to be in a relationship or getting married? I wouldn’t want to because i don’t feel any attraction and i’m not interested in it either! It all seems so important to most of people and it’s just… Aaaaarrrrggg why?! I know of course that some aromantic people wanna be in a relationship, but i’m just not one of them. I might be aromantic repulsed. But am i the only one who feels this way?
  7. YMBAI •You don’t understand romance, relationship, marriage, love songs or why people want that stuff. •Pretended to plan your future to get married and have kids • Pretended to be romantically attracted towards others and have crushes when you aren’t • When everyone has a huge crush on a celebrity and you’re just like “Duh.. Yeah.. Whatever “ I mean i respect and accept people that want relationships/marriage but i don’t personally understand it and aren’t interested or want it at all. I would rather have close good friends. Clearly i’m apothromantic/quorioromantic😂 Same here
  8. I remember when a coworker wrote to me on messenger that he was dreaming about me, and then i had the thought that he might be in love with me(i don’t know if it was the case). So i blocked him and i’m glad that i did it! I don’t understand how someone can fall in love or dream of me!
  9. Aaaaaaarrrrrrgggg sometimes i have days were i just can’t stand humans at all. But that’s because i’m on my period. 

  10. I’m raised in a religious community as well, but thankfully my parents are accepting of my sexuality. They know that they’re not going to be grandparents and that i’m not going to get married/be in a relationship, but they respect that and they’re happy that i’m happy and that’s what i’m very grateful for.
  11. There was one day in college(the college i went to was for young ones with special needs/handicap so it’s different than the normal college. I have autism) where we had a dating game where we should find a partner and have a small talk(as i can imagine you do if you’re dating? I don’t know). And as aromantic(quorioromantic) as i am, i didn’t wanted to do it, but instead of small talking to any of my classmates i got permission to small talk with my teacher. I’ve never been in a relationship, dated or had my first kiss before so i didn’t knew anything about dating someone or how the dating game works. I mean many of the girls i went to college with had a boyfriend so it could have been a more funnier and interesting learning experience for them. Duh..😑
  12. In danish aromantic is translated to aromantisk and asexual is aseksuel like in swedish.
  13. Hi my everyone here, i’m a new member of the arocalypse forum. I’m so glad to be a part of this group because first of all i’m aromantic/asexual, and i have never been in a relationship, had my first kiss or had dated anyone before, and i’m still a virgin. I have never felt any romantic attraction towards anyone and still don’t do, and relationships and marriage isn’t my thing. I’m romantic averse and repulsed. I first found out i were aromantic at 21 when i saw a video about asexuality, and i thought that asexuality and aromanticism was the same which it isn’t. I was very new into that stuff by that time. If you have any questions you wanna ask me regarding this topic you can always message me. I’m just glad that i could be here and not feeling weird for being aromantic.
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