FragileDear

Sidelines by Mercer Henderson has aro vibes. It's kinda sad but it is about loosing a best friend when they got into a relationship.

I relate to the feeling of going back and forth between going to therapy. I had seen numerous therapists growing up and they never seemed to help, so I was a bit skeptical. I have now been seeing my therapist for almost 3 years. I have come to learn it's their job to help you reach the goals you set. With each goal I have set there are always both immediate things to work on and some planning or preparing to give you tools for the future. It sounds like you might have a goal of being able to handle your lows better. All things to say if you feel like you would benefit from going, there is no harm in going and giving it a try. You might end of trying out a few to find one you like.

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I painted my nails in the colours of the aro flag, and Friday I pick up my copy of the book Sounds Fake But Okay that I ordered (the book is being released tomorrow).

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As an aroace, honestly just trying to instead focus on how close we are to aro week. It's the one time of year where because of the allonormativity and amatanormativity I find I have to remind myself more often that I'm okay just the way I am and I'm not missing out on anything. I know there are thing's like palatine's day to try to shift the focus on friendships which would be great in theory ( if I had more friends or better existing friends) except being neurodivergent I also struggle with those.

So I don't think I've shared this before, but I found this music artist Blü Eyes who I discovered though tiktok and they have a song called "Breakup with a Friend".. I thought this was really cool because there are a lot of songs about romantic relationships and breakups, but not many specifically about friendships.

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Hello, I recently found out about this cool anonymous letter exchange happening for Valentine's Day. You submit a letter and select who it is for; a questioning aspec, general aspec, ace, aro or aroace. As part of the process you select what category of letter you would like to receive. After you submit by the deadline early next week you will receive an email with a letter on Valentine's Day. Below is an Instagram post with more details. https://www.instagram.com/p/Cn_ugf4LxzV/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

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