DivineCyst

On 7/24/2020 at 2:55 PM, Mel said:

jeans that are super uncomfortable and tight and have literately no pockets at all.

oh wait-

oh wait those are "girl" jeans. quotes because that is who they're directed at but anyone can wear them if they fit on the person lol

coffee bean grinder but there's no lid or power button

Okay so I thought that I was aroflux and ace but i can't usually tell when i feel attraction if it is romantic, platonic, or aesthetic. i don't know what i could be and I am new so that is partially also why i am asking here. i have had crushes before and i thought they were romantic but they could've been platonic and i just didn't see it before. i am friends with them now, thankfully, because they were good people. 

i also might have a squish but that's besides the point. 

I don't know what i could identify as and i would like if someone would try and shed some light on what i could be..

hello! my birthday is soon so hewwo again! i feel so young/small.. im only 12.. but i will be thirteen soon!

lol i feel the same way about some of my friends lmao. but im the one who is stopping me and my friend from talking to each other because im in quarantine hilariously.. as a fellow introvert, i can only be really open with my close friends and this person is one of them and i dont know how to act around them tbh ahahah. is it even possible to have more than one platonic crush? because i might haha.

On 4/8/2016 at 5:06 AM, Cassiopeia said:

You might be aro if you mistook sexual, aesthetic or sensual attraction for a crush.

 

You might be aro if you thought romantic feelings described by others must be exaggerated.

 

You might be aro if you never notice when someone has a crush on you, unless someone points it out to you.

 

You might be aro if you broke somebody's heart by accident, even without realizing it, simply because you underestimated the intensity of their feelings.

 

You might be aro if you felt suffocated and overwhelmed in a romantic relationship.

 

You might be aro if the pet names people gave to their partners, always felt artificial and ridiculous to you.

Omg all of these happened to me at least once and most happened recently before I realized I could've been aro or on the spectrum. This helped so much lol ?

On 2/14/2021 at 3:48 PM, Sam Spade said:

Yes, I only had a few friends, and they moved away. I'm always the one who reaches out which makes me wonder if anyone actually likes hanging out with me...

Omg same! I mean, not with all of my friends, not all the time but, when it does happen that they reach out first, usually they need information or just want to make sure I'm ok haha

That's awesome! Welcome Ash! I feel the same way about being somewhere in the aro spectrum so I currently identify as aroflux. I figured out I could be aromantic when I was in a relationship with someone and then I realized I didn't care that we broke up. That was after we broke up but i didn't feel anything much about it except relief. So I went and talked to my friends who were already in the lgbtq community and they told me it would make sense if I was on the aromantic spectrum.

The people on this site are amazing and wonderfully welcoming so if you have any questions, then feel free to ask anyone or myself. If I don't know what you are asking about then I will probably ask my friends or just research it myself. ?

Sometimes I feel like I'm not worth being friends with my friends.

Sometimes when I'm not by or with (even then haha) my friends I feel like I don't deserve to be friends with them or even know them because it feels like they are just fine alone. 

I was quarantined recently and I asked what was everybody doing in the group chat and my friend responded and I let out a little steam because we were in the same math class and everything but they just got mad at me so I said I'll leave then. And they didn't do anything about it. 

Is it me? Am I not doing something right? Am I just not good enough? Are they too good for me?

I'm sorry whoever managed to read this far haha. It wasn't worth it. Sorry for wasting your time.

I'm sorry for seeming like I am offloading my problems here.

They are really an amazing person and everyone here is too. Have a great day!

Yea I am newer here too and they have been really welcoming but part of that fact was that I had a friend who introduced me to this website and was just really there for me.

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Id rather have to take care of kids in orphanages(which seems fun tbh) than get married

Yum!(usually only the apple cinnamon kind tho)

Chocolate chip cookies?

11 minutes ago, Confused Artist said:

I'm almost always lonely. I'm not really sure why, but it even happens when I'm with other people. It's kinda weird...

Same and I zone out but then I remember: these people care and if they don't then they should leave. I refocus on the present and be present.

Same. Just same. I have my lasting friends but that's it. 

On 1/10/2021 at 11:38 PM, Micah said:

A few months ago i got into a relatshionship which made me realize i was on the aro specrum probably so i broke up with them. 

I felt that. I realized I was on the aro spectrum a few days ago and then I broke up with the guy I was seeing today bc I was just- no. And the best part was, he knew it was going to happen. So that made it easier for both of us.

YMBAI you were in a relationship and you had no idea why. Also maybe when you broke up, you felt relieved after.