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DivineCyst

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  1. After some thinking and talking to others, I think that I identify most as aroflux and gray! 

  2. I'm offended because I thought i was the only one
  3. Ahh ok. I have been in a relationship before but I didn't feel anything after a while. They weren't a stranger, I had been friends with them for years; thankfully we could go back to being just friends. Now that it is explained, some of the crushes i had before were definitely aesthetic and platonic. Thank you so much for helping! If I have any other questions I will just ask!
  4. oh wait those are "girl" jeans. quotes because that is who they're directed at but anyone can wear them if they fit on the person lol coffee bean grinder but there's no lid or power button
  5. Okay so I thought that I was aroflux and ace but i can't usually tell when i feel attraction if it is romantic, platonic, or aesthetic. i don't know what i could be and I am new so that is partially also why i am asking here. i have had crushes before and i thought they were romantic but they could've been platonic and i just didn't see it before. i am friends with them now, thankfully, because they were good people. i also might have a squish but that's besides the point. I don't know what i could identify as and i would like if someone would try and shed some light on what i could be..
  6. hello! my birthday is soon so hewwo again! i feel so young/small.. im only 12.. but i will be thirteen soon!
  7. lol i feel the same way about some of my friends lmao. but im the one who is stopping me and my friend from talking to each other because im in quarantine hilariously.. as a fellow introvert, i can only be really open with my close friends and this person is one of them and i dont know how to act around them tbh ahahah. is it even possible to have more than one platonic crush? because i might haha.
  8. Omg all of these happened to me at least once and most happened recently before I realized I could've been aro or on the spectrum. This helped so much lol ?
  9. Omg same! I mean, not with all of my friends, not all the time but, when it does happen that they reach out first, usually they need information or just want to make sure I'm ok haha
  10. That's awesome! Welcome Ash! I feel the same way about being somewhere in the aro spectrum so I currently identify as aroflux. I figured out I could be aromantic when I was in a relationship with someone and then I realized I didn't care that we broke up. That was after we broke up but i didn't feel anything much about it except relief. So I went and talked to my friends who were already in the lgbtq community and they told me it would make sense if I was on the aromantic spectrum. The people on this site are amazing and wonderfully welcoming so if you have any questions, then feel free to ask anyone or myself. If I don't know what you are asking about then I will probably ask my friends or just research it myself. ?
  11. Sometimes I feel like I'm not worth being friends with my friends. Sometimes when I'm not by or with (even then haha) my friends I feel like I don't deserve to be friends with them or even know them because it feels like they are just fine alone. I was quarantined recently and I asked what was everybody doing in the group chat and my friend responded and I let out a little steam because we were in the same math class and everything but they just got mad at me so I said I'll leave then. And they didn't do anything about it. Is it me? Am I not doing something right? Am I just not good enough? Are they too good for me? I'm sorry whoever managed to read this far haha. It wasn't worth it. Sorry for wasting your time. I'm sorry for seeming like I am offloading my problems here.
  12. They are really an amazing person and everyone here is too. Have a great day!
  13. Yea I am newer here too and they have been really welcoming but part of that fact was that I had a friend who introduced me to this website and was just really there for me.
  14. Id rather have to take care of kids in orphanages(which seems fun tbh) than get married
  15. Yum!(usually only the apple cinnamon kind tho) Chocolate chip cookies?
  16. Same and I zone out but then I remember: these people care and if they don't then they should leave. I refocus on the present and be present.
  17. Same. Just same. I have my lasting friends but that's it.
  18. I felt that. I realized I was on the aro spectrum a few days ago and then I broke up with the guy I was seeing today bc I was just- no. And the best part was, he knew it was going to happen. So that made it easier for both of us.
  19. YMBAI you were in a relationship and you had no idea why. Also maybe when you broke up, you felt relieved after.
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