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BuySomeCheese

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  1. Am I aromantic? Yes, almost definitely.

    Do I have a Pinterest board filled of mlm couples that make me Feel Some Kind Of Way? Yes absolutely I do 

     

    (I think it’s mainly gender envy and my bisexuality but idk lol)

    1. Lovebird

      Lovebird

      I read so much fanfics of my fave fictional couples lol 

  2. Anyone else getting "[[Template forums/front/forums/topicRowSnippet is throwing an error. This theme may be out of date. Run the support tool in the AdminCP to restore the default theme.]]" whenever they try to open a forum? i'm so confused on what it means and why it's happening, I tried searching it up but computer stuff really isn't my strong suit and that only left me more confused lol.

     

    (Also welcome back to me, I've had to be offline for the past two weeks or so but I got my laptop back today!! Yay!!!)

    1. Acecream

      Acecream

      Yes, happens to me too

    2. Momo

      Momo

      Sorry, this one's on me. I pushed some updates out to the site this morning but apparently one of them broke some things a little less obviously than the whole site being down. It should be fixed now.

    3. BuySomeCheese

      BuySomeCheese

      Ah ok, thank you!!!

  3. For some reason I’m becoming increasingly anxious about my ex finding out I’m aromantic, I don’t think they’ll be very kind about it... fortunately I don’t see them ever, but my best friends do and I don’t want them to be in any sort of danger. Not that I *logically* think anything bad would actually happen, but my body do be reacting as though it’s already taking place lmao

  4. Hmm a poly qpr with three specific people be sounding real nice right about now I just don’t know what do do with this information haha

  5. I really do love this internship I get to do,,,,

    However I am So not into this lecture and it's upsetting ahsdjsfdh

    The lecturer is Very Clearly Into his field and loves teaching this but I just Can't pay attention enough while Also following internship guidelines- if I were allowed to keep my camera off and like. Walk around and shit, then it'd all be fine but my freaking Zoom won't work smh

  6. I think it’s so funny, how I’m always the first of my friends to learn about myself and different communities. I was the first to know I wasn’t straight (6th grade), first to know I wasn’t cis (6th-7th grade), first to question my neurotype (7th-8th grade, I’m probably autistic), and the first to question my romantic orientation after settling in one for a few years (this year, 9th grade). I’m always offering resources to my friends because if they’re going though a similar questioning experience, I want theirs to go as easy and smooth as it can.

    1. BuySomeCheese

      BuySomeCheese

      I just taught one of my friends about SAM (split-attraction model), one of my enby friends now knows that their body dysmorphia was poorly disguised gender dysphoria, my lesbians would still be trying to pass as straight, and one of my friends would be masking constantly and would be unable to chill lol

  7. Just figured out I might have visual snow and now I'm researching that instead of going to bed and wow this list of symptoms really be out here calling out my vision huh I feel seen

    (Pun intended)

    1. BuySomeCheese

      BuySomeCheese

      This isn't related to aromanticism (obviously) I just feel really safe here idk it might be the green theme but I feel like I can comfortably share here lol

  8. Lmao I like how it’s only during ASAW that a guy who had a crush on me in middle school decides he still likes me and keeps hinting at wanting to date-

    Like brooo we haven’t talked in Years and I’m a boy!! Idk if you’re ready to be told that you’re like,, not straight smh

    (/lh but it is a bit Upsetting)

  9. Me: *becomes pretty confident in my aro identity*

    Everyone else: *suddenly has a crush on me*

  10. Question for those of you who Kiss People (whether or not you like kissing lol)-

    As an aromantic/aro-spec person, is it? Nice??

    Idk I’ve just been kinda wanting to try and kiss someone recently, but if I think about it for too long I get super grossed out lmao. I’d like some perspectives from y’all, if you’ve kissed someone and how it made you feel as aro(spec) people. All of my friends are very much Into kissing people and also Not super aromantic sooo their perspectives aren’t super helpful.

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    2. Jot-Aro Kujo

      Jot-Aro Kujo

      No one can answer that question, really. It's going to depend on the individual, just the same as "as an aromantic/aro-spec person, do you like cheese?" In my personal experience, sure, it can be nice or it can be terrible depending on who you're kissing. But the only person who can tell you if you would enjoy it is you.

    3. Arsenic

      Arsenic

      Sometimes it feels nice, it's a way of feeling closer, I guess.

    4. BuySomeCheese

      BuySomeCheese

      Ok well I Did Get Kissed yesterday-

      it was kinda weird in the moment (a Lot of other things were going on at the same time) but now I kinda wanna kiss someone again- so we’ll see what happens ig XD

  11. With me being trans, Cavetown's "This Is Home" had always hit different... but after figuring out my aromantism? Oh holy heck it hurts in the best way.

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