hi all- 28 yr old male here. i'm newly exploring burgeoning feelings of aromanticism/asexuality. i dated a lot between ages 14-27, but eventually i started feeling like i needed to be single, like i wasn't being true to myself. i had a lot going on in my life and things i needed to sort out. i'm finally single and now i'm finding i don't miss romance at all, it's like a weight is lifted. i feel like i felt love for the people i was with, i'm pretty sure of that. but i feel like that part of my life is over now, if that makes sense? it's hard for me to make sense of all of this. i know i don't have any interest in any romantic or sexual relationship at this point. in all, i'm trying to take it one day at a time. i also feel like my sexual urges, once strong, are now an annoyance and fading. a remnant of my former life. it's nice to be here and i look forward to talking more to all of you!