MulticulturalFarmer
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Aromanticism and local culture
MulticulturalFarmer replied to roboticanary's topic in Intersectionality
Yeah that line of we don't care what you are doing but are silently judging you is super hard to navigate, I feel like. Cause you never really know what people are saying behind your back. So that's tough to handle for sure. -
Aromanticism and local culture
MulticulturalFarmer replied to roboticanary's topic in Intersectionality
Do you think it has something to do with being in a rural, conservative area? Or not really? There may not be a correlation at all to be fair. -
Hi there. I wonder if there's a connection between being aromantic and intellectualism. I've defined being an intellectual as someone who likes learning about literature, learning more about science, mathematics, philosophy, etc. not just for a job but also in their free time. I do feel like the stereotypes lend itself towards aromanticism and a lack of interest in romance due to their cerebral nature, but this could just be a stereotype.
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No worries. It's tough out there for sure, especially when you're no longer a kid or teen. More responsibilities, and for me personally I have a lot of obstacles (in terms of intersectional identities) to make long term friends that want to stick around, much less get an "intimate" (even if it were just in the emotional sense) QPR as well so it's good to know that I'm not the only dealing with loneliness (in some sense of the word).
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I haven't had much luck, then again, I kinda suck at socializing so that could be one aspect of things for me. Yeah I think most people are allo and not aro and the two go together for them so that has been challenging.
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How we show up by Mia Birdsong
MulticulturalFarmer replied to Holmbo's topic in Aromantic Pride and Culture
Where did you get it? I suppose I could also do a simple google search too :) -
Using aromantic as an umbrella term
MulticulturalFarmer replied to Moth Lady's topic in Aromantic Discussion
I see what you mean, used to seek those out only because the type of commitment I want isn't typically considered a "friendship zone" type of deal. When I give folks my speciifications, they are like yeah, you gotta be in a relationship to have that type of frequent contact, checking in frequently, etc. I used to be like that but then I realized I also want to keep my stress level down, and evaluated if people were actually listening to what I'm saying or if it's a "in one ear and out the other type of deal." Definitely different for everyone, no doubt. -
How we show up by Mia Birdsong
MulticulturalFarmer replied to Holmbo's topic in Aromantic Pride and Culture
Were you able to get it a library or did you get it on amazon? -
Using aromantic as an umbrella term
MulticulturalFarmer replied to Moth Lady's topic in Aromantic Discussion
Yeah I feel like it can be a way to simplify the discussion and make things more efficient for people who don't want to talk at detail about everything every single time. -
Using aromantic as an umbrella term
MulticulturalFarmer replied to Moth Lady's topic in Aromantic Discussion
Yeah some people use terms like being on the aro-spec in general, and when asked about it in more detail, say they are grey-aro. So it's definitely possible for sure. -
Is that "Are we in a QPR consent form" thing still on tumblr? There used to be one that broke it down and had nice pictures and everything.
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I think the only thing that I know that allows that, is not a video game or computer game, but the Brave computer browser.
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Non-Binary Representation in Media
MulticulturalFarmer replied to Alaska Native Manitou's topic in Sexuality and Gender
For real? Like did she come out as that or was her character somehow non binary?? -
r/actuallyaromantic subreddit
MulticulturalFarmer replied to TripleA's topic in Visibility, Articles, and Meetups
hating arospecs? I didn't know if it was done in jest or not though. -
r/actuallyaromantic subreddit
MulticulturalFarmer replied to TripleA's topic in Visibility, Articles, and Meetups
I am totally out of the loop, what's the difference between r/aromantic and r/actuallyaromantic? -
Maybe it'll be on Amazon video? I know netflix is better but I dont watch TV much and would just like to have access to the movie lol.
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When is it coming out on DVD or Blu-ray? Or netflix lol. I just don't know if I can make it to a movie theater lol.