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About destor_wiseflower

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  • Birthday 10/04/2001

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    Destor Wiseflower
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    Bisexual, polyamorous {questioning aroflux}
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  1. In the car with my mom, driving to sports or something, and love song after love song kept on playing on the radio, so I asked “Why is every song about love? Isn’t there anything else to sing about” and she just answered by saying that it’s a powerful thing or something like that- along the lines of “you’ll understand when you’re older” and even back then I was disappointed by that answer; even at a young age I knew that there was so much more to life than just romantic love and relationships. I write poetry/songs now and yeah, love is a recurring theme, but I make a point to write about
  2. Hi there! I'm pretty new to the aro-community, as evidenced by the fact that I've only made one post on this site, but uh, I just wanted to write this open letter before I make any other posts. I'm questioning my romantic orientation, I'm leaning towards aroflux because my my romantic orientation fluxes between orientations on the grey-spec, to alloromantic, and the fluxes last for weeks to months at a time. I'm still deliberating if this means that I'm on the aro-spec, and I'm willing to be wrong because I don't want to insert myself into a community that isn't meant for me, because
  3. Hello hello dapper folks on this corner of the internet!! The name's Destor [DEST-ER] or Dee for short, and it's nice to meet ya! I'm 19 and a cisgender female {she/her}. My MBTI is INTJ-A, my Enneagram is 1w4, and my Hogwarts House is Slytherin. I'm bisexual and polyamorous, and questioning arospec, leaning towards the aroflux label. I've known that I was bi and polyam from a super young age, and I've had a connection to the aroace community in the back of my mind since middle school, but I've only just recently started exploring my romantic o
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