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    Jayden Alexander
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    Ace with a complicated romantic orientation
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  1. So, I have been questioning my romantic orientation for a while, and here's what I've gathered so far. -I don't feel like I need a relationship, but the idea of one sounds nice -From the romantic experiences I have had (which aren't many), I am usually only attracted to guys, but that could change -Regarding romantic gestures, I am comfortable with cuddling and hand holding, but kissing is something I'm not so sure about -I feel comfortable with having just a group of close friends instead of a romantic relationship -I don't really ha
  2. Hello! I'd rather not take up much of your time, so I'll get to the point. I have been questioning my romantic orientation for a while, and as of recently, I've been heavily leaning towards aromantic. There are many reasons as to why I believe this (i.e: I dislike romance in media, I don't think I've ever had a crush (usually just squishes), I don't think I've ever felt butterflies in my stomach, etc.) And I have also realized that my perception of how I want the future to be has changed over the last few months, and even years. I have realized that instead of having a romantic partn
  3. I have been questioning my romantic orientation for a while, and recently, I've been wondering if I am aromantic. However, after looking into it, demiromantic seems a bit more plausible. I don't really enjoy romantic media and my idea of a romantic relationship is probably not how a relationship actually is, but after reflecting a bit, I've found that most of the few crushes I can recall (fictional and real) only occurred a while after knowing the character/person well. Honestly, when I first meet a character/person, I either want to be their friend or simply think that they are aesthetically
  4. I quite enjoy shipping fictional characters, but definitely not real people! Some main ships I like are Lams (John Laurens & Alexander Hamilton from the Hamilton musical, although, technically, they are/were real, so Hamilton ships are my only exception), Jeffmads (Jefferson & Madison from the Hamilton musical, which I hc as queerplatonic), Bruise (Jay & Cole from Ninjago, which I hc as queerplatonic), Illumi & Hisoka (idk their ship name, but I also hc them as queerplatonic), and Opposite (Kai & Zane from Ninjago, which I hc as romantic)
  5. Some of my main aro headcannons are James Madison from the Hamilton musical (he is 100% aroace, and I hc that he and Jefferson are in a QPR), Cole from Ninjago (he is probably demiromantic ace), Hisoka from HXH (demiromantic pansexual 100%), and Stevie from Schitt's Creek (greyromantic heterosexual) Madison because, in history, he never had any children and didn't seem particularly interested in romance or sex, and he prioritized his friendships (hint: Jefferson), and he and his wife seemed to have a more friendly relationship than romantic or sexual. Cole because he hasn't had an ac
  6. Hello! I am new to this website and I am very confused about my romantic orientation. I have a strong belief that I'm aro, but I'm not 100% sure. Here are some main reasons why: -I'm not sure if I've ever had crushes on anyone before, since they might have just been squishes or plushes (a queer platonic crush) -I tend to skip out on romcoms and romantic books like Twilight because I know that I will not enjoy the romance -Although I really like fan fiction, I'm not sure if I want to be in the position of the characters in the stories I read -I don't really fantasize about r
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