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About arohoneybee
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- Birthday 02/14/2002
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Name
Danielle
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Aromantic Asexual
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(Cis) Female
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arohoneybee started following Birth order effect?, Interest in Google Meet Aromantic Socials, sad aro vibes and 7 others
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Yeah Iāve come out to like 4 people, only because I talk to them a lot about serious things and it felt right to tell them (they were all super chill about it). Iāll sometimes come out if I know the person already knows what aromanticsm is, because I really donāt care about people knowing. When it comes to family or people who I think will take it badly, I just say āIām happy aloneā or āI like to focus on school/my careerā because theyāre more likely to take that answer instead, and truly coming out is very vulnerable. idk if that made sense lol
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sometimes i really wish i wasnāt aro. iām so lonely all the time, and iāve always found myself wanting a relationship. maybe i want a qpr, iām not certain. i just wish i could feel romantic attraction, it seems so much āeasierā to form meaningful relationships that way. i want someone to live with, to hold my hand, hug, and cuddle me when things get rough. someone to read books to and make hot drinks for. someone for me to support and to support me. someone who will notice when iām not feeling well. someone, anyone, so that i wonāt die alone. i donāt know what to do. iād love to
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thinking about marriage and weddings when young
arohoneybee replied to RoboticHumanoid's topic in Aromantic Discussion
I canāt recall ever mentally planning a wedding, I really just assumed Iād have one because āeveryone gets marriedā so of course I would eventually. But it wasnāt never really something I thought about. -
I often switch between thinking I want a long-term partnership in the future, and feeling as though I would enjoy life more on my own. How do you feel? Do you want a partnership (romantic, platonic, etc.) or would you rather live by yourself?
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Iāve been queerplatonically attracted to my friend for about a year now. When we donāt talk much, itās easy to ignore, but I really would love a future with her. The problem is, sheās straight and I know for a fact she wants to get married and have kids and such. I obviously will support her in that, and she is clearly in no way obligated to form any sort of relationship with me. However, does anyone have any advice for getting over a plush (queerplatonic crush)? Itās been pretty rough.
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I think that if a calm, civil conversation is possible, it would be beneficial closure for the both of you.
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Hi! I definitely donāt think youāre too young to start identifying as aromantic. I began identifying as aro/ace at age 15, and now that Iām 18, those feeling still havenāt changed. But just remember, even if you no longer feel a connection to the orientation for whatever reason, itās not a big deal. Orientations can be confusing and if a-spec is a stepping stone on your way to finding out how you prefer to identify, thatās absolutely okay! On that note, the way you describe your feelings for your friends sounds like a common aro experience, and if it were me, Iād say it was a squish. You al
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Sad songs about friends and family
arohoneybee replied to roboticanary's topic in Aromantic Pride and Culture
Burned Out - Dodie Supermarket Flowers - Ed Sheeran The End of All Things - Panic! At the Disco I Found - Amber Run (could be interpreted as found family) When the Partyās Over - Billie Eilish Neon Gravestones - Twenty-One Pilots Feel Something - Bea Miller Antidote - Faith Marie Anyone - Demi Lovato Heavy - Linkin Park Brother - Kodaline Panic Room - Au/Ra Somebody Else - flora cash (could be interpreted as platonic) I have a pretty pop-centered taste in music, so these might not work as well for you as they do for me, but I -
wow you actually put it into words. i honestly didnāt think anyone else felt like this. i adore the way you phrased this, especially the last paragraph. i really needed to hear this. thank you for this post ā¤ļø
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Intro --- Prioritizing Aro Identity
arohoneybee replied to CharCharChar's topic in Welcome And Forum Rules
I absolutely understand this. Iām aroace, and accepting that I was ace was so much easier than accepting that I was aro, because sex in general never appealed to me like the ātrue romantic loveā did. Getting over the hatred I had of myself because I couldnāt feel romantic love took years, and, honestly, Iām still working on it. But, you deserve to love yourself for who you are. It will get better and it will get easier, with time if nothing else. I donāt know if this is something you relate to, but I just wanted you to know that you are not alone. -
If I am a twin, how should I answer this? I am technically older by a few minutes, but I donāt think that really matters.
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cw: talk of depression & internalized arophobia I donāt know if this is the right topic to write under, but it was my best guess. I just started crying because I saw a TikTok of someone simply making hot chocolate, but for some reason, it made me think about how Iāll never have someone to make hot chocolate for, if that makes sense? Ever since I was a small child I had been fed stories from movies and books and tv shows which all made it seem like being in love and getting married and just having a romantic relationship in general was the key to true happiness, and, sinc