Noel

Thank you very much for your thoughts nonmercy, I ever thought about what you said once. But it never came back again to my mind. It seems like after all it's just a matter of communication. She doesn't know how I feel so she doesn't know how she should act in this relationship. And after you point out these theories, I feel like that might be the case. Now that I think about it, she never looked to anything else when she made up her mind towards something. And I think that she made me feel uncomfortable is accidentally after all. But it's all just my thoughts, so I need to talk this out with her. Hello oatpunk! Thank you for your thoughts. This massive red flag that you mention is obvious in any way, but I don't mind it at all. I want to be relied upon and to be looked for when I was gone. And sometimes she can made me feel that way, but over what you said about she might be using me. It is indeed a possibility, but now I don't think that's the case because everytime I offer my help to her over something, she would mainly reject to my offer if she can do it herself. To this point, the highest possibility is the lack of communication. We ever talked about how we should continue our relationship, but I just realized we never talked about how and what she expected in this relationship and I never told her about mine. And the fact that after knowing that we never talked about this, I feel like im the selfish one wanted to be prioritized.