Mrs. Nightwing

Thanks! Same to you!

"Dream" and "desafortunadamente"

A few years ago, I was introduced to the term "lithromantic" and I thought, "Yeah, that fits." But since I thought, at the time, that I wanted to be in a romantic relationship, or that I had to be because of the type of relationship that I do want, I didn't really look into it any further. Since learning that the type of relationship that I actually want exists (queer platonic), I've revisited the idea. I'd actually tried to explain the way I "crush" on people back in college, before I'd even heard of being lithromantic. I just called it having a "movie star crush." Like you said, I can crush on someone for years as long as there's no danger of it actually going beyond that. As far as relationships go, I can't really help you there. Sorry. I've only ever been on two dates in my whole life. The first one I didn't even consider a date until he said it was explicitly. Other than that, no one has ever liked me. :( Sad, but at the same time, I could never actually imagine myself dating anyone anyway. For me, it's just a mess. Haha. Maybe look more into queer platonic relationships? That might help you a bit more than pursuing romance and then not liking it.

Hi everybody! I'm not nearly as confident as the title implies. I'm 27 years old. Lithromantic ace, as far as I can tell. I've dabbled in these labels on and off for a while, but I only really completely accepted them a couple of weeks ago. I still have a lot of research to do, and sometimes the terms are so similar that I can't tell the difference, but I'm doing my best! Unfortunately, I live in the Southern US (for now). I'm a military brat, though. So I've moved around (and continue to move around) quite a bit (17 times and counting, though I'm trying to slow it down). I love roleplaying (the writing kind, MxM and FxF), superheroes (mostly DC Comics!), Les Miserables, video games (especially Nintendo), and I sometimes play tennis. Oh. And sleeping. I'm always sleeping. I'm a kindergarten teacher for now, but I'm hoping that that changes soon. I also have a dog named Daisy (named after the Super Mario character). She's 5 years old. I've had her for almost three years! She's very mean and bad, but I love her! That's all for me, I guess. I'm always looking for new people to talk to, so feel free to reach out!