good evening, sorry for my bad english (i come from italy)
my name is alessia and i am 18 years old, I have never experienced romantic attraction, on the contrary often Platonic attraction.I often happened to disappoint the people who tried with me,
this makes me feel bad, especially if I care about them, I am sexually attracted to males and females, I love the game of seduction but when the time comes, I always go back.
I think this is wrong but I don't want to hurt other people's feelings.
also I would like to fall in love one day but the thought scares me a lot and I don't think it will ever happen.
I tried to explain to my family that they were aromantic, but they don't take me seriously. they say I'm too young to understand my romantic orientation,
and that I just haven't found the right person yet and when it does I will change my mind.
but I am sure I am aromantic and that no matter how hard I try this will not change,
I just want you to understand me and accept it.
do you have any advice? please help i am desperate