glittergal52

Hiya, I’m fourteen and you can call me Thi. I’ve been thinking lately about where I fall on the romantic spectrum (if that’s what it called?). I identified as bi for a while, and then as gay and now I’m questioning whether anything I’ve felt is actually romantic feelings or not. I came here for some help This is a list of reasons why I think I’m aro- 1. I think I’ve experienced crushes but the way I felt is different to the way other people have described crushes. I didn’t have butterflies in my stomach at the thought of them and they weren’t constantly on my mind or anything. 2. Weddings and relationships don’t exactly confuse me but I don’t see the point of them and I certainly don’t ever want to get married. 3. I’ve been in relationships before with people I thought I had crushes on, but once we started dating I felt kind of trapped and I was relieved when they broke up with me. 4. The thought of kissing someone kind of grossed me out? It just seems like a weird thing to do. I’m very confused right now, and it would be great if I could get a second (or third or fourth) opinion on this. Thank you