ClearBlueSea

Yes. I never really wanted one but I ended up in an LDR somehow-this guy started talking to me, I got his number, we really liked each other. It was great at first, I liked feeling wanted, but then I got ghosted. I'm sad and relieved. I couldn't have given him what he wanted, anyway.

That's one of the few things that makes sense to me, honestly. My relationships with my current best friends both felt "deep" pretty quickly.

I don't understand monogamy at all. It seems restrictive.

In a group of three or more while not sharing sleeping space. Preferably with friends, because I might get lonely living alone. But I just can't and never could understand the appeal of being that close to someone, having to wake up next to them. Also, It could be pretty annoying, having to share covers.

Sure! I just realized, I'm only a year younger than you.

I'm new here and I definitely see aros being rude to allos sometimes. Allos are just different. Different doesn't equal bad.

Sadly I don't have advice because I'm in this exact situation. Are you me? lol

This!

Wait, is that just a romantic thing?

I feel this way, 100%.

I'm in the same situation. It's eating me up.